New User Story

Waddup you energy oozing fapstronauts,

I'm kinda new to this, because nows the first time I've really needed it. Here's a brief background story for the skim readers of the NoFap world:

I had a pretty rough breakup with a girl. The breakup would have been fine had I not stayed attached to this girl. We really were meant to break up for the right reasons. Right after the breakup however, the girl had hooked up (gone all the way) with the boy she told me not to worry about during the relationship. They hooked up within an hour or so of the breakup. At the first stage of our breakup I couldn't even fathom the thought of myself being with another woman after the breakup, I don't know how she could have done it (she had always talked about how in love with me she was). But I didn't know about her actions at first. We kept talking after the breakup for a few weeks. She eventually came to me, still madly in love, and I was ready to take her back. However, and heres the weird part, I could feel she was different. She smelled differently, her skin felt differently, she couldn't really look me in the eyes, even her kiss tasted differently. I eventually was able find out by PRYING it out of her what she had done. Our interaction that night got a little weird after that as she tried to guilt me into taking her back, but I'll spare you the details until I can buy you a drink. And no, I didn't take her back.

My heart dropped into my b@!!s. I was finally getting physically ready for hookups after our breakup at some point and was excited about it. However, after I found out my ex was stringing me along to get back together after she had already slept with someone else, I started having some issues down there.

I've definitely had issues with pornography and masturbation before and I think it's a contributing factor to my current lack of libido. I'm terrible at getting past two days without spanking the monkey however. Feel free to reach out with tips, tricks, and hacks to help me get my erections back. Better yet, reach out to start a conversation and if you have had or know someone who has had similar experiences. Look forward to talking with a tight-knit community. Thank you for any connection you can make