New year’s resolution: 2020

I’m Fernando 19 years old 1st year college and have been doing Nofap for 3 years, i think my average streak is around 1 week and longest streak is 75 days aiming for 90 days detox, around August until November which i relapsed unfortunately.

I know streak doesn’t measure my success or progress but i have experienced a lot during that streak and learned how to abstain from PMO, my life improved significantly because of it.

My social anxiety is sometimes non existent but i still have it from time to time depending on my mood, shyness is gone a lot, have a lot of social circle, less procrastination, i am able to do things which scares me, and finally have a beautiful girlfriend which i am lucky to have because she is kind, jolly, and cheerful lady.

I’m just creating this thread for another reason and motivation to aim for the goal i have in mind which is 2 years of no PMO including all my other vices in life. If i can’t reach 2 years then 90 days would do for me.

I would recommend to get busy while doing Nofap specially during the early days because the reason why i relapsed last time is because i was bored that’s when the thought of feeling good by relapsing comes into my mind even when i reach 75 days straight. Never get needy for a girl and work towards yourself and just focus on your purpose, you gotta have a purpose in life or some goals or you’ll feel you’re running endlessly in life with no end while suffering from all kinds of negativity.

We don’t just live to die and live in mediocrity living paycheck to paycheck doing things we don’t like and wait until the end of our day or we’re already dead even before we’re dead.

Wow what did i say? Haha anyways i don’t want to make this thread too long so who’s with me? I hope we can reach our goals