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New Year, New Me.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by No4ap2017, Jan 10, 2017.

  1. No4ap2017

    No4ap2017 Fapstronaut

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    Hello All, I am a 24 year old male. I've heard of NoFap many times before but I always thought it was lunaticism and how porn isn't "really an addiction" and I can "totally" stop any time I want I just "choose" not to. Well, reality has hit me in the face pretty hard. I've had quite a number of girlfriends in my life, but I've found that with porn I had masturbated so much that I could no longer come from vaginal or oral intercourse.

    The girls I've been with have always told me that they feel bad about it thinking its their problem. I was too ashamed to admit that it is because of my addiction to porn so I just hushed it all down.

    As I got older I had trouble maintaining erection and found it difficult to have motivation to speak to any new girl or woman in fears that I will not be able to "perform" so it was a buffer against potential sexual encounters.

    Now, I lie here in my bed, defeated, but now I see the path to victory. It is only my second day of NoFap, and my body is begging for a release, but I am no animal, at least not weak like one, and I will use my higher willpower to overcome my lowly desires.

    Low Self Esteem
    Depression
    Lazyness
    Low Confidence

    A myriad of all these issues have piled up due to my desire to have a quick release.

    Well, no more. It is a new chapter in my life. No looking at porn, no masturbation, no nothing. I'm a new man and I will get my way.

    Thanks for reading.
     
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  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and not judge you.
    What is your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
  3. No4ap2017

    No4ap2017 Fapstronaut

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    I've been reading a lot about spirituality lately. Really dived deep into the topic. I've realized that it is simply my ego-driven desire for instant gratification that takes over me and makes me pervert myself out to disgusting imagery. I know that it is natural to have sexual desires, but to pervert the mind to reach the novelty of feeling is definitely outside of the boundary of what I consider to be normal.

    My action plan is simple: Understand that this is a desire that comes from weakness. And simply surrender that desire and allow my higher Self to shine forth.

    I know it's "woo-woo" but I know what to do now.

    Thanks for the reply :)
     
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    D . J . Fapstronaut

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