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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Pranay_Masterchief, Feb 17, 2020.

  1. Pranay_Masterchief

    Pranay_Masterchief Fapstronaut

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    Can somebody help me out in rebooting .. like how do I stop the sudden urge ... Especially during the night ... Which challenges should I take ... And r d challenges worth it ? ... Will I be able to reboot ... Too Nervous
     
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    Hi Pranay welcome to NoFap

    I face the same challage as you the nights are the worst what i would suggest to be very active on this website keep it open on your browser in case of an emergency. Do not touch your privates no matter what if you do just stop open up this website and have a read of someones story or click the panic button on the top right hand side that should keep your brain distracted. The urge will not last forever it may seem like it at first but it will not. Also pushups help iam only on day 2 and have been successfull in resisting i was up the whole night becuase of an urge but i can tell its worth it to resist you have to reboot the brain to not want PMO. Hope this helps hope to see your journal soon and your progress to becoming free from this evil addiction.
     
  3. Label

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    The nights are harder. I am rebooting and on day 11. The advice from nico2211 is good. Don't touch yourself and let those thoughts run their course. The do not last long. Read the site and be aware and honest with yourself on triggers. Hope this helps. This site keeps you grounded and accountable.
     
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  4. Nucleus

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    In a way, the brutal truth is this... urges or no, you just have to resist.
     
  5. Pranay_Masterchief

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    Thx nico2211 , nucleus and label ... I will take d advice and use it well ...thx for d support ...
     
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  6. KataiBR

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    hello i'm a 18 y/o noob here in the foruns as well, i'm from Brazil and i started to fap since i was 13 and never thought that this bad habit will affect me in other ways, but as i am Christian, i felt guilt and shame since that age as well. Then i started to realy try to stop and that began when started to date a girl, i thought if i fap using porn is like cheating, and since that i started to go to church more and began to fill no necessety at all of masturbation, but even with that i still to fap ocasionaly and felt guilt and shame even more, in that time i dont had any lack of information in this topic(NoFap, rebooting, etc), so in the beggining i started by myself, without even tell my other friends and just searching in Youtube, but the topic in my country is not taken serious and is just a little percentage of the comunity that knows that properly, well that's my history, sorry if my english is bad. I reseted the counting days ago after a 19 days streak ;-; pls help me to reboot and keep going.
     
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  7. Pranay_Masterchief

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    KataiBR Allie m8 is that v all have to stay strong patient and determined .... you already would have many experiences of why porn is bad ... well now is the time where u decide to get up beat this crap and see what life offers u ... speaking of religion ... I am a Hindu but it doesn’t matter all I’m is that god never sent us to live on earth to suffer ... he sent us to lead a life where v should b proud and help others .. he never sent us to feel d guilt that comes after doing PMO ... he sent us make funds to make love and move on ... hope it helps
     
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