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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Ammar2019, Jun 13, 2019.

  1. Ammar2019

    Ammar2019 Fapstronaut

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    Hope everyone is doing good. I am a porn and sex addict since I was 10. Now I am 21 and things have got worsen as time passed. I started with fantasising sleeping with my teachers and then I watched my first porn video when I was 13 and slept with a women for the first time at 20. Thus I have spent around $2000 for escorts. The maximum I have gone with out relapsing is 26 days and on average I stay 10-12 days and when I relapse, I binge relapse and mastubarate around 10-12 times. I honestly am fed up with this habit and would not want to get married or have a relationship until I sort this out as my mind and heart is sick and black. I fantasise literally all the women I come across and it has only got worsen. Add to this I have a habit of sexting and sexual roleplay where I spent recently 16 hours on the trot. However, this habit has had minimal impact on my normal life. I finished my degree with a distinction, I have my own online clothing store and I am financially stable. Yet, only on the recent past this habit has escalated and I could feel the impact. I join this community to do the PMO challenge. It would be great if you guys can help me.
     
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  2. bobross

    bobross Fapstronaut

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    Well, you're on the right track, welcome brother!
     
  3. Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

    You are in the right place for recovery here. We are so glad to have you with us to beat this addiction together.

    You can go read some Success Stories in the "Success Stories" section to learn more about the benefits of NoFap , get useful tips and ideas to help you in the reboot.

    If you have any question about rebooting, you can ask it in the "Rebooting" section.


    And I would recommend you to make your own journal in the "Reboot logs" corresponding to your gender & age to track your everyday progress.
    You can also join challenges in the "Events & Challenges" section, to keep yourself motivated and focused.




    You may start by checking the links below:
    Learn more about Rebooting.
    Forum Usage Guide.
    List of Rebooting Ressources.
    Glossary of terms used in NoFap community.





    Best of luck to you in your journey!





    -The Winner
     
  4. Ammar2019

    Ammar2019 Fapstronaut

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  5. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here is some quick links to get you started.

    - You can set up your day counter here
    - You can find the forum usage guide here
    - Here is we’re you will find a glossary of terms often used in the nofap community. Glossary
    - You can also find a guide to the basics of rebooting here
    - If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
  6. Toni7

    Toni7 Fapstronaut

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    You need to know that is a problem. And treat it like one. So before you have an urge you need to tell yourself that and go to do something else. Devote yor life to new challenges or better yet devote your life to things you wanna do that will make you better person in any way. Do something that you want to do. Anything... to painting your house, to do something outside, to make something that will benefit your finance even more. Do not lie in the bad for no reasone. Onley when you want to sleep. Do not sit in front of computer eather for no reasone. Eat and sleep well. :)
     
  7. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

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