Night Time: Queen of Seduction?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by PornMustDie, Mar 9, 2016.

  1. PornMustDie

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    Hey, fellas!

    So I've been reflecting a lot, about my experiences and others with who I've shared. Realized that we all have something in common (other than PMO) - the night time lust.

    Have you noticed how even your chats/texts get a bit saucy cometh the darkness? When I was younger, I used to think Hell released all it's fiends of seduction at 6pm to come out and play (LOL). But is there any particular reason for the night time lust?

    Also, most of my relapses since the start of my addiction have been during the night time. I've learned to manage it better but would be great to have someone explain this mysterious night time sexual thirst.
     
  2. VeryUnderstanding

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    Hey there fellow friend !!

    I have my opinion on this imo its because we go a hole day without the sexual side because were to busy in daily life activities i think that when we settle at night is when we get sexual we want abit of a taste of that feeling
     
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  3. Joseph2015

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    Interesting reflection. Here are my thoughts:

    for some of us, the "night time lust" might be conditioned: we have done a lot of porn and/or masturbating at night, so we grow accustomed to it and our brains start to expect it.

    Also, for single guys, night is the time when they are most often alone. You generally have to be alone to do PMO.

    Finally, I think it probably has to do with fatigue. At night we're tired, so we let our guard down. Or, we've had a long day, so we think we "deserve" it.
     
  4. melancholy king

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    Most of the time, people watch porn in the dark (including masturbation), so at night its always dark so it is conditioned. Besides that there really isn't anything to do at night, so its difficult to keep your mind focused on other things.
     
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  5. PhakePhakerson

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    I agree with Joseph and Melancholy. Conditioning is the reason why we have the "night time lust". For me, I am actually more triggered in the morning just after waking up.
     
  6. VeryUnderstanding

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    I dont think for me it would be conditioning i have masturbated more in the day then at night, i just think its the dark atmosphere you want to get on that level.
     
  7. PornMustDie

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    @Joseph2015 @melancholy king - Interesting perspectives/theories. I agree with you guys, seems very conditioned.

    @VeryUnderatanding - I do agree with you too. So, what you're saying is that we all just wanna get freaky cuz it's dark?

    Anybody else feeling there's really more to this? Night time lust appeals to everybody, whether familiar with PMO or not. I'm intrigued by how lust-driven people usually get come night time. Maybe a better understanding could be beneficial to my recovering self.
     
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  8. PornMustDie

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    @PhakePhakerson oh really? Morning lust?

    Haha, mornings are when I feel most pure because my cravings are suppressed. It's like sleep softens my libido.

    Also interested in why mornings/wake-ups do it for you?
     
  9. VeryUnderstanding

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    Yeah pretty much darkness symbolizes sex too me its not like a happy thing, its kind of a dark bond between too people
     
  10. Ikindaknew

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    Would I be really out of line stating that quite a few addictions rear their ugly head MOSTLY at night?
    binge drinking! Dope consumption! Porn, strippers, night club cruising, PMO, casino gambling...

    all the ugly, the nasty, the crime, etc...mostly take place at night. Nowadays, with a computer, being by yourself at night, you can do the ugly, nasty and crime, or simply PMO to no end!

    Remember the old Samantha Fox (my teenage fetish!) song? I SURRENDER TO THE SPIRIT OF THE NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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  11. I was actually just going to post something about this. One problem I've had is that I've used porn and masturbation as a way to fall asleep. I'm not a scientist but it reaching or fast does make men (I don't know about women) tired.

    Furthermore, I agree with all of the other possibilities listed above. Personally, I feel like I've developed this idea that if I can't watch porn I can't fall asleep. So I've lost a lot of sleep in the past when I've tried to quit.
     
  12. Rocky101

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    I totally agree with you. Nights/mornings are the worst time for me. Here is a helpful tip. Try to listen to relaxing music when you go to bed. That way your brain only focus to the music. Put a timer on it, that way it won't play non-stop all night. Ocean waves are a good one for me.

    -Rocky101
     
  13. Ikindaknew

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    I use Delta waves relaxation music, on repeat all thru the night. Apparently, Delta waves stimulate the brain to stay in the delta brain waves zone longer for better recuperating sleep.
    Too ealry to say if its very effective, but sounds good right now.
     
  14. kk76

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    Mornings are worst for me. My best trick is just to get up even if its still early and not to lie there debating do I do it or not
     
  15. RawheadRex

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    I love the night time. I've noticed what serves as poison for me is a combo of being tired, feeling anxious, and having time alone, no matter what time of day or night it may be.
     
  16. Rocky101

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    I will check that out. Thanks.
     

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