I am not doing hard mode, but I am not masturbating or looking at porn... My new girlfriend and I got intimate last night. I was a bit nervous at first, hoping that the pledge (which I was on day 12) would help with my problems. Safe to say I got a good hard on, not rock solid but enough to make me happy. My girl gave me head and it was amazing. I felt everything that I didn't when I was constantly jerking off. When I came I felt like I blacked out for a second. It was so good and I started cursing so much that she laughed. Yeah, I am going to keep doing this and guys...keep strong...this avoidance of our vices works.