No attraction to vaginas

Asexual is always an option.

 

I think once you're in a relationship where both truly love each other, the last thing you are gonna think about is how her vagina looks, imo.

 

I'm not attracted to vaginas too.
Not because I find it ugly or something like that but because I just don't like vaginas that's it lol I have no other reason tbh BUT I'm willing to give pleasure to a woman through her vagina if she wants it, just to make her orgasm, for her pleasure only.

If I listen to myself and my fetish I would be trampled everyday literally by women....

 

Well, genitals are utilitarian, and the only purpose they serve is their functionality; they aren't supposed to be a work of art. And it's not like the bird and beans are much better in terms of aesthetic appeal. These things just are what they are, and they do what they do.

 

This is a really important topic for recovery but could be triggering so I’ll spoiler my message. If you already like Vagina then don’t read. This isn’t for you.

Spoiler: Triggering things here

Not liking vagina is a product of porn addiction. Vagina is the best material pleasure in the world hands down. If your desires are trained on mutually fulfilling sex (in real committed relationship, not casual or abusive sex with strangers) you begin to associate vagina with special scents, sounds, touch sensations, feelings in your heart of joy, gentleness, and fearlessness, and sensing that you activated the deep pleasure of another person. These special realities of sex are all connected to the vagina but missing from porn. Porn gives you a mockery or simulation of sex so the computer screen, keyboard, locked room become like a vagina for the addict. It provides a cold, empty substitute and alienates you from the real thing attached to a person who loves you.

The thing porn addicts can’t get used to is that it’s not something to be stared at and put on display. It doesn’t draw your attention. It’s usually facing away from you. It’s there to do it’s purpose out of your sight. But it’s also very suggestive. It’s surrounded by dazzling things like buttocks, thighs, and breasts. But the way the folds turn inwards like heavy curtains makes you realize that those things are only to draw you inside. Inside are wonders only for you to experience and important jobs waiting for you to do. Inside is where the real work begins. Porn cuts that off and locks it far away from you. Think about that next time you get an urge to view porn.

 

Puzzy is a let down, I never got over that and Im like 6 years P free.

 

I too think vagina is wet and gross. However I liked other parts of women. Like other have said, I'm still willing to get over it to pleasure my partner. Doesn't mean I like it still though.

 

I think I can understand where you stand @Xue Hua Piao.
I'm 1,5 year p0rn free and the idea to connect to a woman's heart is the only thought that turns me on.
It's about love, a true heart to heart connection. A true meeting. A true mutual coming home.Yes then the physical part will of course follow.
The genitals are just genitals, but a miraculous way to connect to each other like nothing else can do.
If you love a wife than you will love her body too.

Yes indeed. Well said mss Sheep.

 

I've never really heard of this before but I've known people that just realize they like the same sex and change or just don't have sexual intercourse.


I think you are on the right track of a asexual dating site. Or you could look for a possibly Non sexual relationship if that would be an option. I've never known a girl who didn't like Oral in person.. But there are definitely Gal's out there who don't. I respect them.


I had a relationship online year's back. Nothing sexual was in the relationship.. It was more bliss, love, and a adventure. Not gonna lie I think your mind is in the right spot. I believe I was showed what true love is like from this Woman.

 

You're not on the set of a porno - in real life it'll be dark and you'll be under the covers.

If you find them generally attractive overall you'll just accept the vagina is there. You don't really need to pay that much attention to it, maybe just finishing off.

 

You can look at her face instead and ask if she puts it in

 

I lost attraction for breasts for years and now it's back

 

Bro, you’re good. I don’t know any guy that looks at a vagina and goes “woowee mama!!! Ahoooooogaaaah!!!! Boioioioing haha! Humminahumminahumminahummina”

A vagina is a tool for procreation. Same thing with a penis. With this mindset, some out there may be able to break away from fetishes.

 

Haha well I went woooweeee as long as it was on my monitor. In real life, it never worked that good for me, no matter how long I abstained from P. Only thing Ive noticed is, that blondes smell and taste better to me. So that is a thing to consider..

 

For me, if I think the girl is attractive, then I generally like the vagina to be honest. Just let your instincts take over... you are probably too much in your head/mind during the sex or something. Maybe try taking a shower or a bath together with a lot of good smelling soap and body washes

 

So u dont smell the real smell... why would u do that, if it was good?

 

I was recommending for him, maybe as a way to get more comfortable. Also, I agree that both man and woman should take a shower before sex, so both people are clean.

Naturally, if left outside with no shower, both men and women smell horrible

 

Nah, normal hygiene is standard. Going to shower, clean yourself, fill with parfumes, other smells, just so u can trick your mind to like something, is not a way to go.