No Desire For Women Or Sex Cant get erection !

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by onurexs, May 24, 2020.

  1. Camelon

    Camelon Fapstronaut

    Only wet dreams allowed
    Not only one flatline
    Several ones with different periods
     
  2. onurexs

    onurexs Fapstronaut

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    Bro s its going too hard My masculinity drops zero.Sex drive gone I am look like a child.No women desire Man Wtf
     
  3. Nak

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    Sure bro good luck
     
  4. onurexs

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    I am feeling more depressive now.I can Masturbate Get Hard But No women desire I see women on street I cant attract.I see a normal people Or I can see sexy girls on instagram I.cant sexually aruasal.Before The Nofab I love Ass big tities.Now I cant I see butty but I cant sexually arused. This sendrome is permanent ?
     
  5. Bonhart

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    Hey buddy, that's normal during a streak. It's difficult, but you have to endure it. This is tough, but I bet you are tougher.
     
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  6. onurexs

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    I feel empyt all the time no motivation no drive to do something.I cannot enjoy life.Before the streak I am always high motivation and improve myself My sex drive helps to do something productive gym business school always high motivation.Now I have literally no energy, no libido I have no desire to live.I dont understand What is the point of the nofab if I dont want women or sex no energy no libido
     
  7. Bonhart

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    In your first post of this thread you said that you started nofap because you were "extremely scared when talking to normal life attractive women because you saw them as sex objects and you wanted to have sex with every normal attractive woman you saw."

    Now, listen, what you are experiencing is temporary, it is your brain rebooting. It takes a long time. If you abstain from PMO for a long period of time, you will stop viewing women as sex objects, you will stop being scared of them. That should be YOUR reason for doing NoFap.

    I understand, as well as many others here, how difficult is the flatline. During this period, I recommend, like many others have recommended in this site, developing some good habits, taking up new hobbies or studying something. In my case, I started eating healthy, going to the gym, reading books and studying a new language. Try new things and do not think about the flatline, worrying about it does not help.
     
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  8. onurexs

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    Man, I don't have any problem to be afraid of women anymore, but now I don't feel sexually attracted to women.
    Now libido 0 No interest in women or sex.I am afraid that if I do hard mode with this state, I will lose my manhood completely
    But if you say İf I do hard mode I will be interested in women again, I will do hard mode.But I don't wanna be a monk
     

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  9. Bonhart

    Bonhart Fapstronaut

    You wil not lose it, it is temporary. Go read some success stories on this forum.
     
  10. onurexs

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    Guys Please Help I am going to be impotent now. I became Asexual
    Not getting erection No desire women Women body dont attractme and girls notice and thinking this guy is a gay or asexual I am thinking Suicide I.am very depressed.now.I want to die I want my libido back
     
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  11. onurexs

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    Before whatever I go I would attract the attention of the girls.Now All Girls dont attracted to me.They don't see me as the opposite sex.d I see some girls THEY LOOKED AT ME AND THEY ALMOST CRY .Because all my libido gone.I lost many friends even the closest.Before people always respectme now they dont give a fuck aboutme.People They don't notice me They don't feel my presence because zero sex drive Like I'm not there I lost my prestige and I am losing life.I do not want to do anything no desire to anything.I miss my old life and I cant turn back I want to be male or I want to die.
     
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  12. onurexs

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    I smoke 2 packs of cigarettes a day now
    I'm very depressed.
     
  13. kuijkuij

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    Long flatline is an usual circumstance. Many even need over a year to recover.
    But losing the closet friends is not. There may be some problem in the way you try nofap. I mean starting nofap is a good thing but maybe you are using the wrong method. Why not talk about how do you do this? Maybe you are just too nervous about nofap. I've heard that people care about nofap so much that they start to behave strangely and their friends leave them. Maybe you are in this situation. Just calm down and find other ways to increase your glamour.
     
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  14. GrandRising

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    Hey man, what you're going through is sounding very hard.

    I want to ask you a question.

    What other things are you doing in your life that are good for you?

    When you are on NoFap for a long time you need to be doing other good things for yourself for it to work properly. If it's only about not fapping and getting attention from women it will be a very depressing journey.

    I hope you feel better soon.
     
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  15. kuijkuij

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    Yes, you need to find something to do. Something you are really interested in. I think you just care about nofap too much. It may make you seems strange and friends may even leave you. I mean it is probably if you are very very nervous and care about nofap too much. So why don't you find something to do? Do you like music? I think guitar is a good choice. Maybe you will meet a good girl by practicing it. Nofap is just a little part of your life. Just take it easy.
     
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  16. onurexs

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    Brothers My current status Finally Women body started to attracting me again but I dont get hard by looking women body.I need a erection.I think my natural penis sensesivity increases slowly.Yesterday First time feeling comes my dick need a Fucking feeling I haven't felt this for 6 months But just a feeling not a getting erection.Now my penis touches somewhere I feel pleasure feeling but not to get erect.What do you suggest to me For fast as possible to get a Natural erection.I decided I dont touch my dick let the feelings hard my dick and I never masturbate without a getting erection
    I have the fucking feeling now and This is a body desire not the pmo or fanstasy.
    I hope my dick recovers and get erect automatic no need a visual just a body desire
     
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  17. onurexs

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    Now I have the feelings But dead dick now This means penis rebooting ? I think my penis also rebooting
     
  18. Liven

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    This can i relate to big time. I constantly focus on nofap, because it's effecting me in a bad way and i want my sexual health to be normal. I feel i need a more healthy approach to this.
     
  19. kuijkuij

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    In Chinese Nofap Forum we usually use morning erection(i don't know whether i translate it right or not)to test our sexual function. I hope it may help you. Everything will be okay. It just needs time. Usually it takes a year for the recovery of sexual function.
     
  20. Di.Do.555

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    Welcome to the world of flatline.
    Lethargy and no urges.
    Time passes by very slow.
    You even start doubting whether you are officially depressed or is it just a phase.
    Flatlining is the toughest thing on this journey.
    To me it is the closest thing to death.
     
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