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No easy way to say this, but porn must stop.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Nuth, Jul 14, 2017.

  1. Nuth

    Nuth Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    Well, not much to tell. I'm from Brazil and about to hit 30 years old (by the way, any grammar corrections are wellcome. Im better at translating than actually whriting). I don't feel confortable for saying much, since the role purpose is to remain anonnymus, right? lol

    I started the PMO because a lot of reasons (yeap, I've already erased this text four times), but to keep it simple, I'll number two of them:

    1) I started to enjoy watching some incest content (both mom/son and dad/daughter) and it was starting really to freak me. It hit me that it has a lot of similarity with pedophile (especilly because the videos don't say nothing about age and female characters usually acts like she's just a inocent girl). I started to fear that, if my subconscious got used to it, maybe I would eventually feel the need to try it myself in real life. That some serious shit.

    Isn't that easy to type about this, but as this content can be easily found in major tubes, and I never seen someone talk about it, maybe other people can relate to it and talk about their own experiences.

    2) The problem about porn itself. Women are always pictured like objects. Sometimes dumb enought to offer no resistance or just unable to hold themselfs. Some times they would just stand still while the actor uses her body and follow the director's instruction. Like they wasn't entitled of owning their own sexuality. Most of the times the movies are shot in disconfortable positions so the camera can show the women's body. There's a lack empathy that I didn't want label as sex anymore.

    Anyway, since I started supporting a lot of feminist demands, I tought it would be hypocritical not to do something about my own habits.

    Like AA, I tought that having a suport group would not only help me in my goals, but would also allow me to help others with whatever I can. And english writing practice for free its always good.
     
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  2. Protagoras

    Protagoras Fapstronaut

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    You are correct that pornography can take us to darker and darker places. I have experience that in my life, and joined this website when I saw myself escalating toward more dangerous material. Take advantage of the resources here and let's work to beat addiction.
     
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