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Peaceful Warrior

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Hi all. Very old user coming back here.
I've had quite a journey and found my way to bring porn free through tantra and energetic work.

Not having a partner right now, I've been exploring my sexuality through mastutbation and decided to come back here to explore how I can be true to my sexual nature solo.

I think SR is definitely something I want to explore. I'd like to enjoy my body and mastutbate too, at least until i can get my sexual needs met with another person.

My issues are staying out of fantasy as I don't think that helps my p issues and I know if i get into fantasy, I'll easily go into the ejaculation zone.

Does anybody practice M without O here?
I'd like to discuss this
 
Masturbation: from the Latin words “manstupare,” from “manus,” (hand) and “stupare,” (defile), from “stuprum” (defilement, dishonor), related to “stupere,” (to be stunned, stupefied).
 
Icewarrior said:
Masturbation: from the Latin words “manstupare,” from “manus,” (hand) and “stupare,” (defile), from “stuprum” (defilement, dishonor), related to “stupere,” (to be stunned, stupefied).
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I appreciate your desire to help me by bringing to light what maturbation means to you.

I chose not to shame any part of my sexuality as shame is the place where my porn addiction thrives.
Masturbation doesn't bring shame to me. How I masturbate can bring shame and my desire is to change so I don't go to those places of darkness and shame
 
Peaceful Warrior said:
I appreciate your desire to help me by bringing to light what maturbation means to you.

I chose not to shame any part of my sexuality as shame is the place where my porn addiction thrives.
Masturbation doesn't bring shame to me. How I masturbate can bring shame and my desire is to change so I don't go to those places of darkness and shame
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As someone who has struggled with compulsive masturbation and shame I was not trying to bring shame to the act or the people who engage in it. Why on earth would I want to do that to a fellow sufferer?
I was simply pointing out the suffering that masturbation brings on us. Masturbation cannot be anything but a selfish, lustful, wasteful, devolutionary act, whereas love is its opposite.
In a nutshell, lust is about me, love is about others. Of course, when we are adolescents we are in a process of discovery, but to continue this habit deep into adulthood?
Have I truly learned this lesson yet? No. A very selfish one is still lurking in the shadows.
 
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Peaceful Warrior said:
Hi all. Very old user coming back here.
I've had quite a journey and found my way to bring porn free through tantra and energetic work.

Not having a partner right now, I've been exploring my sexuality through mastutbation and decided to come back here to explore how I can be true to my sexual nature solo.

I think SR is definitely something I want to explore. I'd like to enjoy my body and mastutbate too, at least until i can get my sexual needs met with another person.

My issues are staying out of fantasy as I don't think that helps my p issues and I know if i get into fantasy, I'll easily go into the ejaculation zone.

Does anybody practice M without O here?
I'd like to discuss this
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I have practiced and am actively practicing m but no O. It is difficult and I have developed a number of specialized “treatments” to help both with erections and o denial and security.
It is tough but rewarding.
 
I’d say don’t do it.. or if you do it, maybe try it once a month or once every few months

this could just be your brain trying to get you to feed the neuropathways that are craving the dopamine release from sexual stimulation
 
Icewarrior said:
As someone who has struggled with compulsive masturbation and shame I was not trying to bring shame to the act or the people who engage in it. Why on earth would I want to do that to a fellow sufferer?
I was simply pointing out the suffering that masturbation brings on us. Masturbation cannot be anything but a selfish, lustful, wasteful, devolutionary act, whereas love is its opposite.
In a nutshell, lust is about me, love is about others. Of course, when we are adolescents we are in a process of discovery, but to continue this habit deep into adulthood?
Have I truly learned this lesson yet? No. A very selfish one is still lurking in the shadows.
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I would masturbate because I felt my body needed some exercises and I wasnt getting any so I masturbated...
 
Hey guys, look at the site we are on here: NOFAP. Fap being a euphemisms for MO. Most of us are here because we know that at least for us, MO has been addictive and destructive and we are tying to stop. We have all struggled with this and we are struggling to stop. I really appreciate people shedding light on the destructive nature of it, because I need the reminders when I get tempted.
 
UlyssesResists said:
Hey guys, look at the site we are on here: NOFAP. Fap being a euphemisms for MO. Most of us are here because we know that at least for us, MO has been addictive and destructive and we are tying to stop. We have all struggled with this and we are struggling to stop. I really appreciate people shedding light on the destructive nature of it, because I need the reminders when I get tempted.
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my first week being free of MO......and feel better.........and also meditate...
 
This site is called NoFap, my friend. Quit torturing your little friend if you know what is good for you. Shame or not, masturbation is a disgusting habit that is harmful to male health.

If you are looking for a place to explore your sexuality with masturbation maybe NoFap isn't the best place for that. Don't you think bud?
 
Be Inspired said:
This site is called NoFap, my friend. Quit torturing your little friend if you know what is good for you. Shame or not, masturbation is a disgusting habit that is harmful to male health.

If you are looking for a place to explore your sexuality with masturbation maybe NoFap isn't the best place for that. Don't you think bud?
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I hear you....learning bro....
 
shorty1 said:
look bro...you go to the barbershop.......what are YOU going to get eventually......a haircut...so quit fooling yourself that thats the way to go with this program...you either do it all the way...or it wont work ...simple as that...
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So what’s wrong with watching porn for few minutes without touching?
 
It plants a seed, what you refer to is called edging and may even be more damaging than full blown pmo itself since you are still wiring neurons together that eventually will get stronger the more you indulge thinking it's completely harmless while it's not. There is no safe zone if you ask me, only problems waiting to happen. The problem here is that you are thinking you can outsmart biology. It is a way of extending pleasure without a climax, it's not how nature intended sexual stimulation to be and should be avoided at all costs. Tantric sex or whatever it's called may actually be worth something since there is an actual partner but honestly, all these form of self-absorbed solo pleasure are downright harmful.
 
bken said:
It plants a seed, what you refer to is called edging and may even be more damaging than full blown pmo itself since you are still wiring neurons together that eventually will get stronger the more you indulge thinking it's completely harmless while it's not. There is no safe zone if you ask me, only problems waiting to happen. The problem here is that you are thinking you can outsmart biology. It is a way of extending pleasure without a climax, it's not how nature intended sexual stimulation to be and should be avoided at all costs. Tantric sex or whatever it's called may actually be worth something since there is an actual partner but honestly, all these form of self-absorbed solo pleasure are downright harmful.
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I am not touching myself tho.
 
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