No erections problem

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by pachaman05, Nov 3, 2019.

  1. pachaman05

    pachaman05 Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys,

    I'm a 24yold male currently doing nofap for 3 months. Yes, today is my 3 month anniversary of no PMO. I've been in a relationship for the past 2 months but I still have problems.

    The biggest problem is that I can rarely get an erection. In 2 months i've managed to have sex 3 times, and it lasted 2 minutes max. I've been trying everything with my GF from laying naked for hours to taking baths together. Nothing worked. I get an erection for 1 minute but when she touches my penis for more than 10-15 seconds or I penetrate her I loose my erection. I rarely feel turned on and even when we had sex my erections were like 70%. It's like my penis and libido is numb. Anyone experienced something like this? What can I do? Would taking sexual pill solve my problem?
     
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  2. rafael33

    rafael33 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to the Nofap community.
    3 months NO PMO is great. Did you have to fight with urges?

    No erection. I have not such experience. Sounds like you put yourself under too much pressure. It would be easy to say “Just relax, everything will be fine” (in fact this I would like to say to you).
    Maybe a professional therapist would be the right support.
    I recommend to continue your NO PMO journey. If you are porn addicted since how many years?
     
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  3. pachaman05

    pachaman05 Fapstronaut

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    I had some urges, but nothing big. I was motivated to see this end. I still am. I've been a porn addict since 16-17 yold and i've been doing NoFap for 2 years, with several 30 days streaks. I might be putting too much pressure on myself but I don't know how to deal with it. And i'm going to continue my No PMO journey for the rest of my life.
     
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  4. Similar situation myself, except I'm 34....I can still get erections for sex (like 70%) but they don't last as long or as consistent as they used to be. Hoping NoFap helps me out a bit!
     

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