No life left except the addiction

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I've had everything taken away from me that I valued and there's only the PMO addiction and nothing else. All I can think about is sexual thoughts. I'm not looking forward to the future. I have nothing to look forward to in the future because like I said I've got nothing. My addiction and bad forces have ruined my life. So what do I do?
 
Chris105 said:
I've had everything taken away from me that I valued and there's only the PMO addiction and nothing else. All I can think about is sexual thoughts. I'm not looking forward to the future. I have nothing to look forward to in the future because like I said I've got nothing. My addiction and bad forces have ruined my life. So what do I do?
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The misery , the trials and tribulations ive had to go through , my life has a void it the centre and im just a wraith , an entity who roams the earth without any feelings , goals , reason and purpose..
Thats what i was thinking a month ago..
Then i went on a 30 day streak and boy ,i would wanna meet someone who has the potential to stop me from living life to the fullest , meeting my goals and fulfilling my duties..
Just give it a chance bro..once you feel the energy , the positive vibes and the mental strength , youll leave it for good..
Start your journey today..you have any trouble or querries , im here..
 
Exercise literally will make you feel much better about eberything. Walking and eating healthy and jogging as well. It is okay to feel bad at times, just do your best to get out of there. No one enjoys staying in a rut. I know it can be hard but be happy about every improvement you can make and progressively try your best to be better.
 
read your own profile about F-E-A-R..
stop PMO and replace it with positive actions and thoughts
turn off the porn , DO NOT touch yourself and get some traction on the road to recovery
the benefitsvare enormous
 
I don't expect this to help you but I know what you're dealing with. I feel like time stopped 15 years ago but the sad part is that it didn't. Try to stay strong.
 
I agree buddy. Unfortunately, majority of these posts about success are made either by liars or by really determined people, kudos to them. We are both failures on the other hand. Our life is hell. Because we lost the war with PMO, I’ve been trying for three years. It’s over. I can’t go longer than four days. It’s better if I was dead.
 
No one cares about you having nothing or being a PMO addict.
These forums are a coping mechanism to help you get over the addiction and to connect with others with a PMO addiction.
Simple inspirational words are not the foundation to a better you. If it was then every NIKE wearer would be an Olympic level athlete.
All I would tell you is to stop being such a downer as I once was, and find inspiration in yourself because only you know what you've been through. Do something you find purpose in not only PMO addiction quitting. For me I hope to go back into a Martial Art. It is as simple as that I believe.
 
Gar Funkle said:
No one cares about you having nothing or being a PMO addict.
These forums are a coping mechanism to help you get over the addiction and to connect with others with a PMO addiction.
Simple inspirational words are not the foundation to a better you. If it was then every NIKE wearer would be an Olympic level athlete.
All I would tell you is to stop being such a downer as I once was, and find inspiration in yourself because only you know what you've been through. Do something you find purpose in not only PMO addiction quitting. For me I hope to go back into a Martial Art. It is as simple as that I believe.
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Tough-love advice from someone who just relapsed? I don't know if I'd be keen on taking it too seriously.

It's only after you've helped yourself with such common sense logic that you'll be able to help others.
 
Gar Funkle said:
No one cares about you having nothing or being a PMO addict.
These forums are a coping mechanism to help you get over the addiction and to connect with others with a PMO addiction.
Simple inspirational words are not the foundation to a better you. If it was then every NIKE wearer would be an Olympic level athlete.
All I would tell you is to stop being such a downer as I once was, and find inspiration in yourself because only you know what you've been through. Do something you find purpose in not only PMO addiction quitting. For me I hope to go back into a Martial Art. It is as simple as that I believe.
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https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/fight-club-is-a-punch-to-the-balls.326318/
 
. I am addict since birth. What sin did i do.! In my childhood i see a intimacy b/w two people and am sex addict since then. I don't call my life hell...it is above that.
 
kopykat said:
Tough-love advice from someone who just relapsed? I don't know if I'd be keen on taking it too seriously.

It's only after you've helped yourself with such common sense logic that you'll be able to help others.
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Mate, Ive known about NoFap for so long and tried to really make breakthroughs for years.
Back when I was really out of control and had no self control over the feelings I had. I did not care about some dude telling me a quote from either a dead dude or a fictional character.
I get what your saying about common sense logic helping, but in my experience being around people who are also extremely PMO addicted. These statistics and inspirational messages fly over their heads like a paper airplane because not only they but I myself was in denial.
Some days back then I would wish someone would beat me up until I wanted to finally survive for once. No one did though. I had to save myself, no one else even tried to help me.
The only breakthrough happened when I went out of my way to isolate myself from bad influences and bad people, and just sat down and started to self reflect.
Then I had realized how far gone I had become and made the change for the better.
 
Gar Funkle said:
The only breakthrough happened when I went out of my way to isolate myself from bad influences and bad people, and just sat down and started to self reflect. Then I had realized how far gone I had become and made the change for the better.
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I get it. The only real "breakthrough" I had was when I left the place I'm currently back living in. I had left for 2 years and I was honestly doing much, much better. I engaged in PMO far less during that time, I was social and seeing people all the time, I was active in many ways even if not for sport. It's a long story but now I'm back in the place where I am engaged in PMO very often and edging frequently. It's no surprise because a lot of people where I am are drunks and drug addicts. I don't drink or do drugs but I edge which is probably just as bad, if not worse.

Your message only solidifies for me that I've known this all along. I think we all know such things about ourselves deep down.
 
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