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No more attraction and hate

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Nov 26, 2020.

  1. When I was a teenager I used to be attracted by females my age. I'm talking about crazy falling in love with them. I don't remember but I think I was already watching porn, maybe a little less porn than nowadays but still porn.
    I have never got lucky with girls and at some point in my 20s I started to becoming mysoginy, to hate all girls my age because they all rejected me always. (I think I was being an "INCEL"). I started to hate boys also because they got lucky genes and look manly even at 18. I'm 22 and I look like a 15 years old kid. I believed in LMS theory (Still believe in it) and due to this I feel like I'm never going to get a girl.

    I'm in no pmo, 1 day streak, coming from 10 days streaks cycles, trying to not focus on girls and rejection and guys better than me. But I can't. How can I stop these incel / inferiority feelings?

    How can I start to not hate females and judge them because they choose better looking guys, and start to fall in love again? I think I don't fall in love with a girl since I was 19.

    Thank you all.
     
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  2. PanteriMauzer

    PanteriMauzer Fapstronaut

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    First you need to stopp focusing on sex and having a gf and just knowing girls just that, just friends
     
  3. I think you can try making yourself more attractive, and work on your self-confidence. You need to be comfortable with yourself and confident in yourself, girls sense insecurity and when you're desperate. Start setting some goals, and try your best to achieve them. Don't chase after girls, for now, focus only on your goals so that when you achieve each small goal you can build up your self-esteem enough to talk to girls without pooping your pants. Become the strongest version of yourself and do what makes you feel good.

    I am in a similar position and that was my plan anyway. I don't think there's any point worrying about it, it's not going to solve anything. Talk to more girls, get better at it and more comfortable with approaching. Try talking to girls with more confidence and try to be friends with guys who are very good with girls, they can rub off on you. Stay positive and make some moves before it's too late. You've still got time.
     
  4. PanteriMauzer

    PanteriMauzer Fapstronaut

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    Work on yourself, improve your looks , confidence will appear ! Also dont be needy, girls hate needy guys do the best to dont show that

    At uni im the only man at my class , and girls have no problem with me , their fine with me altough, im not much of a talker and i at first didnt showed much interes neither talk to them , it was them who talked with me lol and even invited me to join their work group ( i was in a group with another girls, i think the girls of the other group where a bit jealous and invited me to their group , i accepted lol because their prittier and also more funny)
    How this happened, working in yourself , working on your looks , be confident and dont show needyness ! But this takes time and effort to develop, im on self improving crusade sincs 18 , im 22 now , some things also need to still be improved but progress as made done very well!
    Do something you really like to do, for me was fighting since i started to fightingmy my moral and confidence boosted alot, unfortunaly i canr do that now because covid , but vaccines are comming and next year with God help i will return to warmongering
     
    Last edited: Nov 26, 2020
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