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No more climaxes?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Choppers, Apr 6, 2015.

  1. Choppers

    Choppers Fapstronaut

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    I don't know if this has happened to any of you recently, but it has happened to me quite a lot these past few weeks. When I relapse, all I get is the anticipation of a climax, but without the actual orgasm. It happens almost all of the time and it's extremely frustrating. I know certainly that I just be desensitized to it, but then wouldn't I not feel the "rising action" too? I'm scared that I won't be able to orgasm anymore, at least without some kind of professional help. Professionals mean telling my parents. They've been pretty dismissive about my concerns in the past, so getting this level seems impossible to me.

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  2. e5s

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    That's just one of the things that can happen when you M too much. Your "rising action" and climax are two different processes. Sometimes you can have one without the other.

    Could be caused by desensitization, in which case, hands off for a long time, followed by gentle stimulation only and you'll be cured.
    Could be a mental block, since you're not okay with M anymore, maybe it can't get you over the edge easily like it used to. If that's it, hands off until you're in a situation where you deem it okay. Depending on how frequent your habit is, maybe your body is tired of O for now and needs a little break. In any case, avoid the compulsive self-stimulation and you'll find improvement soon I think.

    Another thing that can cause this is that if you're on certain drugs, it's a known side effect. You really should talk to a doctor if it's bothering you in that case.

    I can understand being reluctant to talk to your parents about this, but if they're cool enough that you'd even consider coming to them with your problems, surely you can tell them "I need to talk to a doctor and it's about my sexual health and I'm seriously too embarrassed to discuss it with you unless I absolutely have to." You should be allowed to talk to a doctor without a parent in the room, if you request it. They're there to help, and they see this kind of thing (and much worse) frequently.
     
  3. freedomwarrior

    freedomwarrior Fapstronaut

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    e5s hit the nail on the head. If your sass arm is tired and worn out you stop playing the sass and let it heal. Same thing with the penis. Let your penis heal and repair itself instead of continuing to wear it out. Tough as hell to do because the brain and the addiction are hard at work to keep you the drug addict you have become. Fight the new drug with all you got, brother chops.

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  4. depo27

    depo27 Fapstronaut

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    That is anorgasmia... you shoulg go see a doctor. It might be psychological.
     
  5. david-ca

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    It's most probably one of the symptoms of pmo especially if you used to masturbate a few times a day.don't masturbate for like 2 weeks and you won't have a problem
     
  6. freedomwarrior

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    OK...stupid question from an old man like me....by 'rising action' do you mean that point right before orgasm/ejaculation where there really is no turning back? So is it like you are ready to enjoy the muscle spasms of orgasm and they just never happen? Let me know if I have this all wrong.

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    Last edited: Apr 21, 2015
  7. Jake1

    Jake1 Fapstronaut

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    pls read 'your brain on porn' ebook, you can get it from yourbrainonporn.com gives a lot of info also with regards to what you're experiencing. Give it a couple of months (min 3) to heal (so no P/M/O) good luck!
     
  8. Andrew0268

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    Sometimes I think the body needs a rest from over work. Especially the penis. Strange things happen and will go away over time. I had an unusual buzzing sensation in the base of my penis that lasted a few days after I stopped PMOing all over the place.

    It went away after a few days and never comes back unless I go on a binge.... which I am proud to say has been over 51 days ago since I binged!

    You'd be better off not doing any orgasm for a week, you'll be fine. I'm pretty positive you won't have any damage. You may be better off not doing any orgasm for a couple of weeks. Forget about it for a while.
     

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