No more fighting with myself

You will succeed. Never think otherwise. Start to build your life. This november will be three long years of fighting it.

I think what has helped is one anything remotely like an urge I tell myself its what my brain wants not me and imagine myself fighting something like an enormous alien something just so random I forget.

I also focus less on quitting porn meaning I don't constantly think "don't think about porn don't think about porn oh shit I'm thinking about porn". I focus more on building my life. I think you should check out the post in my signature its totally worth reading.

And finally I found that I used porn to self medicate whenever the stress of life became to great it was in a form of self medication. So find out what makes your urges the worst. Its not only urges that make you relapse it may be something else. Well good luck man.