I posted this in APs yesterday but I think it belongs here too. Hey dudes! I'm looking to build a self-improvement/accountability group. The self-improvement portion of the group would be based on the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover. I'm willing to bet there is a good number of men on this site who can connect with the material in this book. Brief synopsis: Many men, as a result of past experiences and bad paradigms, grow up to be nice guys. What's wrong with being a nice guy? Nothing. Except, nice guys tend to be dishonest, manipulative, bad at relationships and have addictive behaviors. They tend to feel like the effort they put in is never as effective as they had hoped. This comes as a result as some men's tendency to live externally (looking for validation) rather than internally (based on values). Nice guys try to make themselves into who they think everyone else wants them to be instead of being honest and vulnerable about who they are, and they're needs and desires. The goal of the book is to provide nice guys with ways to change their mindset and their actions to start living effective, fulfilling lives. I'm thinking between 10 and 15 men would be a good number that allows us to get to know each other and have an effective group. Since different people may move at a different pace I don't think I'd want to plan a schedule for reading the book. Rather we can just keep each other updated on our progress, discuss what's talked about in the book and encourage each other. My personal NoFap goal is to do a full 90 day reboot and then just keep going. I haven't fapped yet in 2018 and I plan to keep it that way. Please be serious about NoFap and studying the book if you join this group. Plan to be vulnerable and to contribute.