No PMO: Ever considered chastity devices?

I've never considered buying a chastity belt and would never buy one, because:

• It feels old fashioned, something that was promoted in Victorian days to discourage masturbation and punish people for trying to do so.
• It won't be a true test for my patience. Chastity belt would make abstaining from masturbating easier but I want to experience this challenge in the hardest way possible, so that I'm mentally stronger and in charge of my body.
• It's too costly. Also it is rarely available here.

 

I find chastity devices rather interesting and have contemplated using one in the future now and then. I still live at home so getting one without someone seeing it would be a problem.

I feel that the chastity's use is ok in the event that a person is addicted to masturbation in such a way that they have almost no control of their desire. It should only be used as a last resort.

I advise that after the 90 day challenge with the chastity on taking it off afterwards and going 90 days again to train your mind to handle the desire with no chastity.

Interesting thread!

 

I did think about it, but several things held me back: what if I found myself in the embarrassing position of having to explain it? For example, going through a metal detector, or something like that. What happens if I lose the key? Or if I have to go to the doctor or emergency room in a hurry? It could be very embarrassing for me.

 

What if you need to do toilet during the day?! Is there a special hole?

 

I think it's like going to live in prison for a person just to avoid commiting a crime. To me it makes no sense, I dont mean to offend though. I just wanna be free of an addiction, not to supress it with old fashioned objects. Also, what about if you have an erection, a morning wood or just a natural one when you are interacting with a girl. I have no problems with erections come naturally, my problem is PMO. Think twice about this.

 

chastity devices are also a bit of a kink for many and can be triggering. They are often used for "erotic" denial, where the idea is to get frustrated and built up but then eventually "released". Sooner or later it is removed, and like taking a dog off the leash you are likely to want to play.

The whole thing really just keeps your brain focused on sex and masturbation by way of it's explicit restraint and the additional focus on your genitals... It is something that will constantly draw your attention to it, and do you really need MORE focus on your genitals right now?

While this may seem like a helpful tool to some, psychologically I think it is a trap.

 

In other threads, I noticed that there were a subset of guys who tended to have night relapse syndrome, where they wake up, are horny, and then within minutes (sometimes seconds), a relapse is well under way (or completely over). I think either a chastity device or other protective clothing might be a good idea for them simply to put a barrier between relapse and give a little extra time. Sometimes it only take a few seconds of sanity to right the boat and keep the ship sailing.

Maybe recommended for those with overactive hands. From the threads I have read however, it seems to have more negatives than positives (one of which being that the device would draw unnecessary attention to the area and wouldn't help to get your mind off it all).

 

Nah I wouldn't wear one. But if it helps some go for it!

 

I know this is an old thread but just wanted to give my two cents about chastity devices.

I am new to this site, i found it doing a web search on help to remain chaste. I may be considered odd by some, in that, while I have at some points in my life have seen P, done M and had O, I have never been addicted to P or M, however, O to me is a purely natural human desire, that is ok in the appropriate setting.

I also found out about something else in my search, chastity devices. My purpose in my search was because to will yourself to be able to do anything is wonderful. But some of us just need physical things to help us.

Its no different than a software block, or careful entertainment choices. Those are blocks in place. Why do you need those if you have great will power? Because, it is just in case. It reminds you that you just can't, you shouldn't and thus you won't. It gets you past those critical moments.

I am in a situation where my wife has multiple health issues that requires me to stay celibate. I was looking for something, anything to help curb my natural desires. Chastity devices became the saving grace for me.

I went to my Dr., then a urologist, trying to find out what I could do, what I could take, to help me. I tried medicine, which has risks involved. I was desperate to find resolution.

Then I read a post about a gentleman who was in my similar situation. He went the same route I had traveled. He spoke of how he ended up in a chastity device and viewed it as a way of honoring and respecting his wife and sanctity of their union.

I found the same to be true. It is completely safe, yet an effective method of control. I am self-monitoring, yet I yearn to be loyal as a result of its presence. It symbolizes my love, devotion and commitment to my wife and best friend.

We all have an opinion, we are all different. What works for one, may not for the other.

But, as someone who is now on day 376 of 24/7 locked chastity, I can tell you that I feel better about my success than I ever have.

For me, it is permanent. This commitment to be locked in chastity is for life. It becomes a part of you, just like wearing glasses or anything else. I even consulted my doctor who was thrilled I had found a possible solution, and was encouraged to follow it through and I had full support.

Success sometimes comes in ways you don't expect. Be open minded to what can improve your life. Whatever it takes to reach your goals.