No sexual attraction

I think the most of people there had that problem, but to a different extend. It seems to be really simple and common - your sexuality is such porn-oriented, that it was totally detached from real life. You have very unhealthy image of sexuality in your mind and you react only for porn stimulation. I know it is hard to heard that, but using porn castrated and emasculated you by now- your female friends cannot see you as a man and probably even you cannot see yourself like that. Think about it, how deeply using porn affected your life. However, you can always take actions to fix yourself!

However I have not experience with such problem I will try to write something to help. First of all you need immediately stop watching porn and masturbate for at least 90 days (probably more). You need also to avoid swinger's sites, online chats and similar things. I would recommend you to restrain from social media and TV series, movies and other things promoting unrealistic image of women. You need to work on it.

Your brain lives in a big lie! Your brains think that women (people who you consider women in sexual way) don't even exist in real life, but only on the screen (except those 'slutty looking' you told about, but not very often). In consequence you detached the sexual desires from emotions and relationships. You can have relationships (not only romantic) with girls but they are not girls in sexual terms for you.

Fingers crossed!

 

I would say this is a pretty common theme, I have had these same problems to a lesser extent and felt totally detached from real women and unless i was degrading them in my head i wasn't interested. I did a hard reset a few years back and incorporated jelqing, kegels and reverse kegels as well as regular gym exercise and a good diet and it all changed. The ED stopped and the PE got under control and ive had good intimate relationships since, for the most part. It is a long difficult process but its well worth it and the gratitude you will get from a loving relationship will far exceed the gratification you are getting from PMO trust me. Good luck and don't let the short term pleasure stop you from achieving long term happiness.

 

I believe you will feel significantly better after a few months but the porn effects will be diminishing continuously after that too. I don't know how long it will take to feel totally well- there are to many factors, for example your lifestyle, exercising, your approach, emotional situation etc, but I am certain that you will see difference after 90 days and then you will know that the rest of bad things is going to left you.