No sexual encounters during 90 day reboot...yes or no?

I think you should actually try to not get in these situations, twice already you have been in this predicament with no fruit to bear. As you said none of this will mean nothing if your tool dosent work (according to you). So take it slow and go for 90 days depraved, it could help your pied. On one hand you have two instances where the reboot was not enough to cure pied on the other you havent given enough time without any interference for a reboot. Whichever you choose dont repeat the same mistakes and dont take too much time to decide, because 90 days can take months or worse, years to achieve or it could take simply 90 days if you start right now and here.

 

Also, if your worried about the girls my suggestion is to not worry too much about trying to maintain a sexual rel. w/ them. There are plenty out there and you can always try re establishing rel. these once the 90 days are done with

 

Hello mate, your situation is very similar to mine. I am also single with PIED what i found out during random bar sexual encounter. I dont know how it was for you but for me that feeling when I couldnt get it hard while the girl was super-excited with utterly soaked panties, she wanted me there so much, but I somehow wasnt able ... that feeling of helplessness ... that memory of using fuckin finger so she was not disappointed instead of my Captain, that fuckin resign to work... nope ... that's the feeling I never ever want to experience anymore.
When it was my 12th day, I was thinking the same thing as you that it might be good idea to have normal sex, and I was quite confident that I could do it, but thankfully I have resisted. I could probably do it, I was even able to get very hard just to memory of that girl (and her body) from bar that didnt arouse me at all when she was laying next to me. But...
... later when I was looking on some vanilla soft porn pictures, that made me hard, suddenly next in gallery was little bit different (more graphic) and instantly brought me memories and fantasies of graphic porn I used to watch and that sent to my brain much stronger sexual signal than previous soft normal pictures, telling me that I am still far away from being totally rebooted.

So long story short, until just being with the girl do not give you strongest sexual impulse than anything else PIED is not cured and I wouldnt stop or even slow the great recovery you are doing. What's the point. You want to get rid of PIED as soon as possible so you can have normal life with normal woman/women. Think about it! For example my goal is to be able to get rock hard just from kissing a girl that should actually be enough impulse for healthy man; it's something that I was able to do when I was a normal teenager and I cant do any more but hopefully not for long ;-)

 

Its long but very worthwhile in the end! I'm so glad my PIED is gone! But it might be easier with my wife, I don't have the stress of dating or having sex with a new sex partner.

But definitely, don't get yourself in a situation right now. Wait until you feel that your brain doesn't feed on porn ideas. As long as your mind is filled with sex thoughts, PIED might rear its ugly head.

PIED is basically your brain having sex, instead of having your body doing it. Your brain needs constant stimuli given by porn and masturbation at your own pace to keep the interest and erection...we become addicted to artificial sexual stimulation to keep an erection.
Real sex is about real stimuli, that is not as fast and constant as porn stimuli.

So, its all about re-learning how to real sex, with disconnecting the brain. I'm not saying to be emotionless with the girl. I mean its like the erection just happens!

I took some L-arginine, some B-complex vitamins, soem odorless garlic, some zinc, some maca-ginseng combo for a few months at the beggining of my reboot. All ingredients that help a lot with blood flow.

Also, in all cases, before your get ready for penetration, just make sure you make the girl orgasm once orally, with your fingers, etc. It goes in a long way to reduce your stress, increase her arousal, increases your arousal, etc. It might be better to be with the same GF or Fk-friend (although I don't like the term).