No success though hard mode: 1 year! No P: 6 years

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by lss465, Aug 31, 2019.

  1. lss465

    lss465 Fapstronaut

    Hi everyone,

    I started PMO at the age of 13 and I did it till I was 25. 6 years ago I met my wife and since then I have never watched porn again.
    One year ago, after still suffering from ED and PE, I decided to do hard mode.

    Hard mode helped me to controll my urges or some kind of hypersexuality. That is positive.
    Nevertheless I am flatlining again, erection is very bad. At first I thought things improved after nine months, but now again: no libido, very weak erection.

    I am in good shape, I sleep a lot, eat healthy food and I meditate.

    Next goal: 1,5years AND if things don't improve I will try treatment (2,5 or 5mg per day) and will start having sex again.

    I feel very frustrated but I wanted to share my experience to you.
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  2. scjguy

    scjguy Fapstronaut

    Since you're married, are you sure your ED is not because you somehow don't feel very aroused by your wife? There may be a number of reasons for this. I'm not saying you should try it with another woman, but how can one know?
    I mean, honestly, if you've been 6 years away from porn, I doubt it still has any effect on you, man...
    Can you reach a solid erection by fantasizing?
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  3. lss465

    lss465 Fapstronaut

    No, fantasizing does not help. I can get aroused in the morning, but no erection.
    Porn is not an issue in my life anymore.
    I went to an urologist, everything is alright physically.

    I have no Instagram, Facebook etc. . My wife is the only woman that matters for me. And she is attractive.

    Six years ago it took me around 8 months to rewire to a real woman. But I suffered from PE. I think I am severe case. ED improved a bit, but not significantly.

    After one year of hard mode I think that I somehow need to rewire again. But I am also quite sure that some important pathways are damaged. I hope pills can help me to strengthen the important ones.
  4. Chappie77

    Chappie77 Fapstronaut

    Can you get erect and masturbate to ejaculation?
  5. lss465

    lss465 Fapstronaut

    One year ago it was definitely possible. But is was actually the reason why I started hard mode.
    I was only possible to get erect or to have intercourse by getting hand stimulated by my partner.
    I thought hard mode would made it possible that I could get a strong AND LASTING erection just by seeing, feeling or getting closer to my partner. But never reached that. But that must be the goal!

    I was in a relationship at the age of 15 - 18. Everything was perfect. But then I was single for seven years and I was pmoing very, very much. This period made me to a severe case.
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