NoFap 2019 CHALLENGE! 18 YEARS OLD, LET'S DO THIS!

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by YoungPiccolo, Jan 1, 2019.

  1. Someone B

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    No no, I was talking about your laptop, yeah Cold Trukey on mobile isn't as great as the software for computer.
    I'm a little excited : Vivaldi is going to release (almost sure this year, at least the beta version) their mobile version !
     
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  2. Someone B

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    Well at least Cold turkey has been useful today for me ^^'
    But I had enough of Chrome on my phone so I can be tempted to use it for porn because I don't have protection actually on it.
    But today I haven't fall and it's my day 2 again.
    Guys where are you ? At least @niceguy97 is here and sometimes @patd and recently @PeterBE (in real when I say guys I mean @YoungPiccolo , you have started to motivate us, now we have to make a part of the road alone but try to come back here maybe one time / week no ?)
     
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  3. patd

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    @Someone B
    I think that you guys are focusing too much on less important things. I could give you an example.
    When I was young no matter what I was doing I was successful. The most important thing about achieving my goals back then was focus. I didn't care about other things. When I was growing up I started to find excuses. Once I said that my fault was caused by parents. Another time I thought that my bad mark in school was because of teacher etc.
    So, I noticed that last year and decided to be again that young boy. Now, when I fail I' m not giving up and looking for excuses. The boy who is winning is in my mind. Now, the goal is to find problem, solve it and show the world that everything is possible. That's what I meant saying that everything is connected with your mind.
    I like that we are sharing our problems here, but cannot help with yourself. Everything is achievable. Just show us that you guys are better then the rest of the world that thinks that PMO is normal. @YoungPiccolo , @niceguy97 @PeterBE @letsgetthisbrot
     
  4. niceguy97

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    @patd tbh i ran out of excuses... Im just gonna keep on trying again till i get rid of it. Im slowly (for some rzn cuz i only realize it after relapsing) eliminating triggers but its takin so much time. Bruh the goal of this thing was 365 days but I cant go for a week, iz kinda pitiful. Anyways, Im guaranteeing myself the next few days.
     
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  5. letsgetthisbrot

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    @niceguy97 I am the same way. But we can do this. We can make it. I literally fell twice today. But every day is a day for change.
     
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  6. niceguy97

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    day numero uno has treated me well, felt a lil more energetic than usual, tried my best to be productive
     
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  7. Someone B

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    My day 1 isn't really finish, the night me my bed and my phone unprotected is the place where I can fail... I'll not change the place I sleep like the place I work ^^' I just need to find a thing that really block porn on my phone. My laptop isn't a problem anymore (thanks @niceguy97 to have remember me again Cold Turkey).
     
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  8. Someone B

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    Well I relapse (I understand about notion of "reset" but for me cuz I'm a porn addict see porn indeed is a relapse). I understand about reddit community of nofap. However it's a double-edged choice because there is a lot of porn on this site but a lot of help and motivation post by r/nofap...
    I can't make ColdTurkey block words (unfair...) but I have disable and oblige myself to only go on reddit with my profile (and not without account, that make me see porn) cuz I have disable porn content on my profile.

    God damn it, now on it's some fews days I can pass a full day without porn...
    I know I'm stressed about how my year-study will end, I have to much work to do but I find time that I haven't to see porn..
     
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  9. PeterBE

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    Im still going but I had some urges yesterday. Conquered them and I hit the gym earlier today so I'm getting ready for the summer
     

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  10. patd

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    @PeterBE man you just doing great! like to see your success, keep it up!
     
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  11. Someone B

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    I am a Christian and it is Lent at this time, I have disabled Cold Turkey and I let myself be guided by the spiritual side of the event and my willingness to stop. It is a "pleasure" poisoned porn, and during Lent we must deprive ourselves of what makes us happy. So at least during those 40 days I won't fall.
     
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  12. PeterBE

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    HOOYAH!
     
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  13. PeterBE

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    wrong move, you will fail again (no offense) but what motivates you to quit pmo? we are here to help you and sometimes we have to bit a bit tough and ask ourselves why we want to quit that's why i'm like this.

    as for me, right now my goal is to get fit, strong & athletic before summer camp halfway of july & my job raise in a year. and ofcourse my network marketing project.
     
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  14. Someone B

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    Well I don't have a real sex experience with my gf and I'm afraid about how I could be because all that porn I saw could impact me with her.
    Also I want to quit porn like a sacrifice to give me a little more chance to have this first year of medicine and to prove to myself that I can stop even if I'm addicted.
     
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  15. Someone B

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    Guys, how are you doing ?
    I'm on day 4, and a lot of time I was starting to fail but everytime I wasn't like before (PMFO, I already told something about fake orgasm with porn). I mean I saw a post on reddit pretty funny : "I'm a normal man, I see boobs, I do alt + F4"
    I'm trying to apply this, but for me, cuz I'm on Vivaldi, it's more like "Damn, porn here, right click, down and right" (gesture with mouse that close a tab).
    In reality I'm affraid because everytime I was unaroused by porn it's was more a delayed arousing more than anything else...
    You have to still struggle guys, don't forget that porn is fake (I need to remember me that too) and real life isn't this poor quantity of excitement see in porn. When you'll feel real excitement with girl (or boys) you'll know that porn is too stereotyped and faked.
    But when you've knew that and haven't feel it for more than a month, you feel the chaser effect too and porn is whispering at your ears... (I don't speak about making love but feeling excitement with someone)
     
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  16. niceguy97

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    Yo, idk which day im on (im on mobile cuz i accidentally blocked NoFap for a week on pc :/) but ik im doing well. Awesome to see u @Someone B getting 4 days! Keep it goin!!!! But in general ive been feeling well. Even if i have been a total goofball the last few days XD
     
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  17. PeterBE

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    Back to 0, got a little tipsy this morning and that did it... anyways, hitting the gym again tomorrow morning so that'll be good :)
     
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  18. Someone B

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    Well I pass day 5 ! But in reality now I don't know if I need to go back to 0 or not. Explanation : last night I listen a woman telling a story (asmr) but it was a sexual story and my bad, instead of leaving the phone locked I unlocked it and she was starting to undress...
    I locked my phone almost instantly but.. Even if I just do No Porn, I fap on this tease and I don't want to tell myself it is a relapse or a reset. I think I've evolve since the time I was watching girl being f*** like object and now just a woman tell a story that tease me. Yeap she was starting to undress and it was a porn video if I had watched it would have been a porn video but I just listen it and let myself guided by my imagination.

    Hope you enjoy this analogy @niceguy97 it's not my better I know but I just imagine it so :
    If I was doing bicycle, this asmr video was like a small wheel at my bike, but when I start to drive, I remove the wheel instantly; compare to other times I was needing to drive with 2 small wheels necessarily. (well not a good analogy I did better I know).
     
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  19. patd

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    @Someone B I think it's evolution and it's up to you what you take as breaking a rule. Do you agree with that?
    It's 65 days for me and I think that I'm 100% free right now. The last few days I was on academic exchange. I met a lot pretty women. It was good time. I haven't even thought about PMO.
     
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  20. Someone B

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    I'm agree and I won't lie to myself, break the rule is for me : "envy to see porn, watch porn, masturbate..." but listen a erotic story, starting to see nudity but instantly locked phone (or laptop) that's not a relapse.
    But I'm trying to understand myself and recentrly I saw porn but not as a envy but to really see how stereotyped and poor sexual offer it is. To not lying physically I was still exciting to see porn but I think I'm in a regulation phase and I'm searching for something real, not industrial porn. (Well I was on Tumblr but even if the update some porn still on the social media so... as a dislike session on YouTube, it was a porn denouncement session)
    So if I return to this industrial porn I reset my counter, but actually I'm totally in control.
     
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