NoFap and fetishes

[123Dele]

Hi so I have been addicted to porn for about 6 months to a year and I am going to talk about my fetishes and my sexual experiences and if anybody could weigh in on some advice towards overcoming these with NoFap itd help.

so ive always been attracted to regular porn, I have a gf and I think she's very beautiful and that and ive always been attracted to the general ass tits n jus women. about 6 months ago I accidentally found femdom videos and I thought they were weird at first but overtime I became addicted to these videos where I would jus wank to them 2-3 times a day instead of normal porn. now id still be attracted to normal porn but femdom started to attract me a lot more. overtime the addiction started eating into my life to the point where id see a girl and think there fit but then start fantasizing about being dominated by them. now I have never been into girls using dildos and anything kind of down the gay route it was always just the girl being dominant with words or instructions. this made me feel very weird and it got to the point where id not meet girls or get with them because of the femdom fetish. This made me very depressed. the femdom addiction got better when I got a gf like a couple of months ago but I still noticed that I was way more turned on by that then having sex with her even though all my life I was only attracted to having sex with girls. our first time I found it really hard to get hard and stay hard for long time with her and it didn't feel as good as having a wank to femdom porn. so recently my femdom porn grew again as we have been in lockdown due to the coronavirus, so I started NoFap about 4 days ago and its extremely hard but im determined to quit it for me and my gf and I was hoping anyone could help with if the femdom fetish will go away as I quit and stick to only having sex with my gf.

thank you

 

[Deleted Account]

Ok, 6 months ago, so you can cure this. I have been addicted to these videos maybe 5 years now and femdom desires I experienced when I were going to kindergarten. I think if this is porn-induced it could be much easier to you than some of us. You must quit this or it will become darker and harder to quit(don't be skeptical of these words, because I was, and even so it happened). In your age I didn't believe that femdom could go in these dark things, it appears in those videos.

Nofap is hard now in the beginning, but it will become easier over time (to me it was like that). I offer you to use less the internet (YouTube, social media), to do something useful and use every morning a cold shower. You can insert in your free time meditation and exercise with your body.

Don't forget to reflect. It is really important to understand why you are into femdom, try to trace the cause which often lies in childhood. It would be best if you have someone with who you could speak about it.

Good luck my friend!