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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by MONSTER MONK, Mar 3, 2019.
daily check-in after dopamine fasting
I'm a Major now @MASTER MONK .
For whenever you are back
Day 15 checking in
day 60 Major
Some folks in the AP group relapsed. The problem is they're all on their 30+days. Weekend relapse is very common here. Unless you figure out the pattern(s), there's no freedom.
Just because I'm 51 days I can still go back to day 0. It is easy to give up. Constant check in (especially on the weekend) is suggested.
Remember the 1st order is to take charge of this life and all triggers in view, 4th is to sound off WHY you're doing this whenever you can.
There's a old saying in the military "don't think just do." So just do it. Until nofap became my second nature. Stay clean folks!
Happy message #90 to myself.
@All all @Gentle man
Congrats on getting promotion
True, weekends are risky
Day 19 - Check ✓ - Still going strong!
Day 3 checking in,
I feel like I have finally developed the right attitude for my ambitions. My aim is to at some point be free of pornography and masturbation, which I understand is a very difficult task. I am fighting evolutionary biology and my own brain. However, I have seen other people achieve it, so I know that it is POSSIBLE and I have achieved an abundance of rewards when I abstained, so I know the goal is WORTHWHILE.
Now what do I mean by "I have developed the right attitude"? I have learned from my accountability buddies to not look at this process as a chain of relapses that returns me to square-1 but a process of fine-tuning where each relapse is a blind-spot that I was not aware of. A hole in my game-plan that I only learned through a failure, which I can now plug.
I will aim not to fall, but if I do fall, I will continue my journey wiser than I was before I fell.
Day 167 completed
Day 2, studying ...
Day 16 checking in
Let's lead the army
@All all @Gentle man
From being a trio of majors we can be a trio of generals or even kings....the destination is worth all the sufferings, urges, lowly feelings etc that turn up on the way...