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nofap brings people closer together

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Xwin, Apr 21, 2014.

  1. Xwin

    Xwin Fapstronaut

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    I have an obervation I wanted to share with you all:

    Browsing this website made me realise something really important - people are helping each other regardless of their age, gender, religion, sexual orientation, country of origin, race and political beliefs. Isn't that amazing? Wouldn't we all like to live in a world like that?
     
  2. Misunderstood

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    I like this community too. It's one of the only places I love to go to online. It's nice to see so many beat come together to beat the all-mighty enemy: PMO.
     
  3. Soul Cage

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    Yeah well said Xwin, so true. I like to come here too, everyone is so genuinely helpful and there seem to be no boundaries and no prejudices. Yes, we are all bound together by a common enemy!
     
  4. need2bchaste

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    I know! :) People are actually quite civil here even when they disagree, and that's really nice to see.
     
  5. stygian

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    It is amazing! I feel closer to some people on here than to friends I've met in-person. I find myself becoming happy when I read someone's success, sad when I read someone's failure, and engaging in conversations with people who have widely different beliefs to my own, and with whom I ordinarily wouldn't converse.
     
  6. BlackStones

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    It definitely an awesome opportunity to connect and help or be helped. Not nexesarily helped, but just tobe listened too because there is someone here who is experiencing the same or a similar conflict. I really appreciate this community and I should be on here more to encourage myself to abandon my past ways.

    Together, we can all achieve our goals. Individually we could, but it would be much, much harder.

    So thanks to the successful people, they are motivating me to hold my front!
     
  7. I so fucking agree. I think that we all know what each other are going through, having a comprehension of it, and so it naturally create bonds. I love you all guys, so much. I'm cheesy but I don't care. You all matter for me, I care for you.
     
  8. Time4aChange

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    I know when I come here and reveal things about myself I don't feel anyone is judging me. I feel proud of people who didn't let themselves get as addicted as I did. I feel a common bond with people whose situation are closest to mine. And I feel huge amounts of compassion for people who may have it worse than me. That has been my experience.
     
  9. Soul Cage

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    Beautiful, I couldn't agree more !
     
  10. Rafa

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    It really is beautiful, people here are very supportive and open it's really nice. To help others and be helped it's something everyone should be proud. This community is great!
     
  11. I love this thread because that is my experience. You put it so beautifully, Time4aChange. This is how I feel, too.
     
  12. Shit Time4aChange, you brought tearz to my eyes.

    I've learned so much things from you all. On every way possible. I seriously feel nothing but love for each of you. I'm sorry, I'm bringing the cheesy girl's side to this testosterone filled forum, but it's true. I think that anyone who's here, because of the particular nature of the addiction, is extremely valuable and an example. No matter the number on your counter or how many times you relapsed. If you're here you want to be a better person and for that, I love you and I thank you.

    And as a girl, it's even more important for me, because I think that every guy who tries to stop objectifying females and every guy who stop participating in the women abuse by stopping to watch porn, well tries to consider and love more women, and for that, I'd like to say in the name of every women in all universes: thank you, thank you so much for being you, thank you so much for being here, you're amazing, what you do is great and amongst everything the more respectable, and if every people were like you, the world would be a much, much, much better place.

    So stay strong. You are worth it.

    Thank you.

    EDIT: Ooooooooooooooooooooooh congratulations vertigooooo!!!! Fuck yeah man, beat that counter :eek:
     
  13. dodoz123

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    I totally agree!!
    I remember posting about fasting as a Muslim in a thread. This was in a thread about fasting and how to use it to get out of our comfort zones and assist us in our nofap goals.

    Usually if I was in any other forum I'd get a few people arguing over religion and so on. But on here everyone is so welcoming. I got so many encouraging and positive replies to my post.

    It feels good to know that we are a diverse range of people all seeking the same objective of bettering ourselves.
     

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