This is a dating challenge for men. Here are the rules: For this date until the time when you have completed your reboot or any other date after that, I am creating a dating challenge that will help men understand how to better engage with women. Rules: 1. When you see an attractive woman in your environment, whether you know her or not, approach her in a polite way, and smile. 2. Have straight posture with your back, neck and head. 3. Don't twitch around and move while you listen to her or talk. Stand still. 4. Ask her a relevant question about something that she knows about. For example, if she is wearing a Pink Floyd t-shirt, ask her a simple question, like, "Are you a fan of Pink Floyd?" 5. Allow her to talk, rant, complain, without end. DO NOT INTERRUPT HER AT ANY TIME. 6. When she STOPS TALKING, THEN ask her a RELEVANT question about the topic at hand. 7. Whether you ask her a question or make a statement, your next move is to use ONLY ONE sentence. 8. At any point, if the woman decides to leave for any reason, then say Goodbye, and move about your day. 9. See how far you can listen to her, and for how long. Keep it all about her, all the time. When she stops talking, that is the only time you will respond with a one-sentence question or statement ABOUT HER INFORMATION SHE JUST TOLD YOU. 10. Here is the goal of the experiment: Can you, by merely staying interested in her on an unlimited basis, allow her to INVITE YOU to coffee OR ask YOU for YOUR DIGITS? 11. The muscle being exercised here is altruism. Remember you cannot fix other people's lives, cannot give them relevant information, but what YOU CAN DO is to listen, and that might be all that it takes. Find out for yourself.