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Nofap for 28 days but struggling with inner conflicts

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by praful, Oct 19, 2014.

  1. Oct 19, 2014 #1
    praful

    praful Fapstronaut

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    Hello people, I'm a 29 year old (30 running) from India who is still without a job and wasted life so far in sexual fantasies.

    Firstly, the religion which I follow lays more importance on holiness and leading a lifestyle of purity in all aspects (mentally, physically and spiritually). I was living pure lifestyle until I turned 16 yr old college boy where I happened to meet up a young brat who taught me "HOW TO MASTURBATE" and that was it! I got addicted and was doing it at the expense of my studies and career. END RESULT - Though graduated with a master's degree, I'm not able to find proper job due to very poor academic grade records.

    To add more insult to injury, I got ditched by my ex-g.f for being very small down there. Since then, for 4 years now, I'm even more obsessed with size issue. Also recently, I find myself feeling uneasy and awkward to change clothes at swim showers for fear of getting laughed at my size. And, whenever I partake in NoFap challenge for 1 month of observing celibacy, I get screwed up in the process of measuring up my size where I just check to see if it's getting any bigger. Then, you know it better. I either end up with an ejaculation or edge myself to penultimate erection for marking off that number on measuring scale.

    I also get myself naked on cam to seek opinion and validation of women over my size. 5/10 say, it will do good. But I'm doing this all at the expense of my job search.

    How do I break such an unhealthy pattern? Knowing that I've hit almost 30, where I need to find job soon and get married to settle down in life with a family and be more responsible person.

    Any suggestions will be much appreciated.

    Thank you,
    Regards,
    Praful
     
    praful, Oct 19, 2014
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  2. Oct 19, 2014 #2
    Sonu1983

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    Dear praful dont worry abt size of ur penis. i have a frnd with 2.5 inch boner he is married and have son 3 yrs old. to satisfy a women u dont need big penis u only need a good erection with long lasting stamina. u know that u can satisfy a girl with ur finger also and i think u have greater size than a finger. so forget abt size and try to get ur stamina back which u lost because of masturbation. promise urself ull never masturbate. ull get recovered automatically. but it need time. my advice is to abstain atleast for 6 months. u ll see good effects within 60 days. ull feel more energy and aslo increment in ur body but for that ull have to stand hard.
     
    Sonu1983, Oct 19, 2014
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  3. Oct 20, 2014 #3
    praful

    praful Fapstronaut

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    Hi Sonu, Thank you very much for the encouraging words. Will take up the NoFap challenge soon but don't know what would be the ideal time period at-least for the beginners in partaking the challenge.

    Certainly, no one likes the feeling of quitting. So, it's good to aim for an achievable target than setting 60 days or 6 month period straight up.
     
    praful, Oct 20, 2014
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