NoFap Got Me a Girlfriend.

Charlie's devil · May 25, 2020

Angus McGyver said: ↑

That's one important message you stress!
Any woman that gets into your life (as a girlfriend or dating-partner) should be regarded as the icing on the cake and not the cake itself.
Because, the moment you let any woman trying to mold you according to her frame and expectations by start picking on and criticize your friends, family-members, your job, hobbies and interests, you are bound for disaster if you give in to her demands, unless you put down the foot and gently show her the door if your lifestyle doesn't suit her. If she whines, screams, cries and tries to make a drama about the reasonable offer, you know (on the spot) you saved yourself months, years and perhaps even decades of misery and pain.

You can always find a sweeter and better woman out there (the importance of an abundance mindset), so you don't lose too much by discarding a bad one from your life since all of your other areas in life, i.e. friends, family, hobbies and interests are still existing and standing strong. The latter are much harder to repair if damaged or severly broken.
The sad thing is that the vast majority of Western men these days let their girlfriend/wife dictate their lives and hence give up on so many other areas of life just to please her. After that point, they walk through years and decades of pure misery until they get red-pilled and can put it to an end.
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Nice to find like minded people here

Riseb123 · May 26, 2020

Angus McGyver said: ↑

That's one important message you stress!
Any woman that gets into your life (as a girlfriend or dating-partner) should be regarded as the icing on the cake and not the cake itself.
Because, the moment you let any woman trying to mold you according to her frame and expectations by start picking on and criticize your friends, family-members, your job, hobbies and interests, you are bound for disaster if you give in to her demands, unless you put down the foot and gently show her the door if your lifestyle doesn't suit her. If she whines, screams, cries and tries to make a drama about the reasonable offer, you know (on the spot) you saved yourself months, years and perhaps even decades of misery and pain.

You can always find a sweeter and better woman out there (the importance of an abundance mindset), so you don't lose too much by discarding a bad one from your life since all of your other areas in life, i.e. friends, family, hobbies and interests are still existing and standing strong. The latter are much harder to repair if damaged or severly broken.
The sad thing is that the vast majority of Western men these days let their girlfriend/wife dictate their lives and hence give up on so many other areas of life just to please her. After that point, they walk through years and decades of pure misery until they get red-pilled and can put it to an end.
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Very smart reply from you i got your point thenk yaa

Deleted Account · May 26, 2020

Well can't agree with woman as icing on a cake. I believe it's perfect when two are friends first and then when only next logical step is marriage they get married and become one whole(have sex only AFTER marriage). Because if don't look at "new normal" then God have made sex between man and woman as a testament, a blood testament. - When man and woman have sex then they become one whole and even if they not married then they should, otherwise if they split its a sin and like tearing apart two glued cardboard pieces. - It damages the soul. Also according to Bible wife and husband should never divorce, only allowed reason for divorce is cheating.

Sure that sounds like a fairytail, but these are good guidelines in life, how not to get in trouble. I been living without these rules but now when I know truth and follow Bible, my life is much better.
So these are good rules to avoid a lot of trouble that's out there in society these days. Also it helps to guard most important thing that you have - your heart. Because from heart comes life.
Prov 4:23: "And keep watch over your heart with all care; so you will have life."

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