Hello, 24 yrs old male here, living in the UK, Asian, got a job, I'm a virgin too and have been on nofap for 4 years now. So as a teenager I never once desired to see an escort or even engage in real sex because of pmo, however when I discovered nofap at age 20 I guess that started to change, pretty much all these years my brain has been wanting another dopamine release and has been craving for the real thing, of course I've relapsed before but I have also reached day 90 quite a few times. As of writing this I'm on day 27. Nofap has helped me because it got rid of a lot of anxiety and low energy which I know was the result of pmo (I do still get anxiety and low energy but not as bad as when I used to pmo). So for about these past 4 years ive managed to hold off on seeing escorts because I wanted to make an effort to meet someone first before I go that route so I can say ive atleast tried. However I haven't had any success. Every guy I know irl has had experience with women except for me, their just not interested in me it seems. So I think Nofap for the most part has just been torture for me, making me crave a release with more hard times than good, however, ill never go back to pmo. So do you think I should give it a try? lose my virginity and maybe visit just once a month? im careful with how I spend my money so im positive I wont lose control and go more than once a month. And also to clarify I don't have a problem with paying for it, I used to but I think being alone for so long has changed the way I think, I don't see it as the easy way out I see it as the only method available to me. Also its legal here in the UK. But still I would like to know your opinions before I make the decision to go (which would be in June since I am a little occupied this month). Thx for reading.