stronautsa
Fapstronaut
Hi Community,
My first post here. This is more a post about PE as regards to ED which I feel is much less common but just as severe. It's basically a reaching out to any people with a similar problem to mine and any advice people have, that would be much appreciated.
My NoFap journey started around 4 months ago, I decided i'd try anything to attempt and cure my PE which I feel is the sole cause of my anxiety and the missing piece for me in being that normal person i've always wanted to be. Somewhat dramatic but true. It was my first time trying it and I didn't relapse once, tried medium mode (so no porn/ masturbation but still slept with a few girls along the journey). Those who are familiar with it know all to well the embarassment, the worry, the way it holds you back from trying certain things, seeing certain people and trying new experiences, even for me to the stage of turning down sex with a pretty woman because I was confident I couldn't satisfy her sexually.
What has led me to this post today and reaching out was I surpassed the 90 days easily, the so-called curing phase and had read some very promising posts on this here forum about NoFap curing their PE, this was naturally the aim, but it didn't work out that way. The past week my ex girlfriend was back in town (she's somewhat familiar with my PE and a really nice person, we also ended on good terms). The whole Easter break we had sex roughly 2/3 times a day and the longest I lasted was about 4 minutes, even with the breathing techniques I'd been practicing and some breaks the sensation was too much and I couldn't hold out any longer. As nice as she was about it its still very emasculating and led to the whole experience being so much less enjoyable. This has since stuck in my mind.
On the back of this, i'm extremely disheartened so i'm asking for people suffering from similar to please let me know what worked for them. I have also experimented with edging and kegels before NoFap. I genuinely feel like I have run out of options and would do anything to cure it. Thanks for reading and any suggestions once again would be very much appreciated. Also feel free to ask any questions!
Hope you're also having a great day otherwise!
Sa
My first post here. This is more a post about PE as regards to ED which I feel is much less common but just as severe. It's basically a reaching out to any people with a similar problem to mine and any advice people have, that would be much appreciated.
My NoFap journey started around 4 months ago, I decided i'd try anything to attempt and cure my PE which I feel is the sole cause of my anxiety and the missing piece for me in being that normal person i've always wanted to be. Somewhat dramatic but true. It was my first time trying it and I didn't relapse once, tried medium mode (so no porn/ masturbation but still slept with a few girls along the journey). Those who are familiar with it know all to well the embarassment, the worry, the way it holds you back from trying certain things, seeing certain people and trying new experiences, even for me to the stage of turning down sex with a pretty woman because I was confident I couldn't satisfy her sexually.
What has led me to this post today and reaching out was I surpassed the 90 days easily, the so-called curing phase and had read some very promising posts on this here forum about NoFap curing their PE, this was naturally the aim, but it didn't work out that way. The past week my ex girlfriend was back in town (she's somewhat familiar with my PE and a really nice person, we also ended on good terms). The whole Easter break we had sex roughly 2/3 times a day and the longest I lasted was about 4 minutes, even with the breathing techniques I'd been practicing and some breaks the sensation was too much and I couldn't hold out any longer. As nice as she was about it its still very emasculating and led to the whole experience being so much less enjoyable. This has since stuck in my mind.
On the back of this, i'm extremely disheartened so i'm asking for people suffering from similar to please let me know what worked for them. I have also experimented with edging and kegels before NoFap. I genuinely feel like I have run out of options and would do anything to cure it. Thanks for reading and any suggestions once again would be very much appreciated. Also feel free to ask any questions!
Hope you're also having a great day otherwise!

Sa