nofap is the result of confidence and different mindset

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by kingpietro, Jul 1, 2018.

  1. kingpietro

    kingpietro Fapstronaut

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    Dear forum,

    I think a lot of you guys are doing nofap with the motivation to get more girls and becoming more confidence however I think you people need to realize that you are thinking the wrong way its not because you don’t masturbate that you get more confidence no having more confidence results in you less masturbating. Nofap is the result of having a different mindset.

    When you are depressed or having low confidence you want attention and that’s why you are masturbating to porn because you think you will not be able to find love or sex.

    You are masturbating because you are putting woman on a pedestal. They have amazing ass, boobs oh my god I want to have her. While if you have a different mindset and care less about her looks and have a attitude “ she needs to prove herself” lets see if she is worth it.. Then you will not masturbate to porn because would you masturbate to something you don’t find important.

    When you have more self respect and confidence and see woman as they truly are just humans just like(men) and they need to prove themselves and see if they are worth you’re time you will also look different at naked woman you will see it as something normal not “amazing “.


    Thinx about it if you make woman less important how hard is it to not masturbate to their pictures? Not that hard at all because they are just woman.

    Want to succeed on nofap? Change you're mindset. Push her from the pedestale
     
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  2. r8js

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    nice thought to take into consideration
     
  3. kingpietro

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    Yesterday i saw a movie called

    There where lots of nudity in it but i noticed i didn't care at all it was dude it are just woman who cares .. And i didn't have a urge to masturbate. i did was aroused but i didn't get this massive urge to cum.
     
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  4. kingpietro

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    Bump people need to read this !!!
     
  5. Vandermeer

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    What the fuck are you talking about? No woman acting in a porn "is on a pedestale". It´s totally the opposite. They are permanently humiliated and disgraced in porn, because of the need of men all over the world to fap over that stuff.
     
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  6. kingpietro

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    Porn users put hot woman(porn stars) on a pedestale because they masturbate to it while you should not give a woman this attention before you get to know her.

    You see a hot woman and thinx i want to cum and you start to get anxiety and stress. While you don't even know her don't put her on a pedestale.

    Don't put hot woman on a pedestale and masturbate to them. If you change that mindset making woman less important you will not masturbate to them.
     
  7. Vandermeer

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    Yeah, same way catholic church argumented in old times. Don´t give women any attention at all, and by the way "they don´t have any souls at all..."
    Ironically there is no escape from nature. As more people try to fight it as stronger get the mysterious urges. Porn users have not the slightest interest in the women as human beings.
    They don´t want to get known with them, introduce them to their parents or even make "whores" their girlfriends. They use them. To fap their junk. And these women are also treated like the junk of the societies they live in mostly.

    Don´t assume from yourself onto others. You may do this, that´s your personal view on women. Don´t spread or preach it for the rest.
     
  8. r8js

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    out of 100 ways ths mig
    ht be 90th way to stay away from pmo
     
  9. kingpietro

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    I am just saying if you have confidence , and are happy and need less attention from a girl its easier to not masturbate because you don't need it thats my point.

    I am not saying give woman no atention i am saying you shouldn't thinx a woman is the one just by seeing her one time give it time...

    And i don't have anxiety when i approuch woman because i thinx its not a big deal i only thinx its a big deal when i get to know her..

    Its just my experience if i got more confidence i masturbate less to porn. or even not.
     
  10. r8js

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    last few weeks i was looking for some practical simple way to think better for females, i decided whenever i see females , i will say thank u very much in mind. ofcourse it gives me some way think about them. i helped me to not judge them wrongly.
     
  11. kingpietro

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    Woman is like a present with a package.. it can either have a nice present inside or not..

    don't give her to much value just because of her body (package) get to know her
     
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    Thanks man , i will try my best .
     
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  15. Little Bo Peep

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    That's not what everybody goes through or why they masturbate to porn, nor does it have to do with "putting women on a pedestal"...
     
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  16. And you know what you end up with this mindset? Absolutely fuck-all. No, I'm not advocating putting women on a pedestal, but I've got at least a decade's experience on you and I have yet to meet a woman who has ever felt the need to prove herself to me, whether I showed interest in her or not. If this works for you, great, but as someone who is quoting MGTOWs, I'm thinking that you don't want women in your life.

    Exactly. My thoughts on the women I masturbated to was that they were actually making an effort. Was it financially-based? Yes. Was she acting? Well, Duh! Was it just for me? No. Was it degrading to them? Possibly, although I didn't much care for that sort of extreme stuff and I'm not here to start a debate on immorality of pornography. The simple fact that there was a woman making this much effort for me actually meant something to me, and the fact that we'd probably never meet each other worked in my favour - women who meet me don't feel like making an effort for me, be it in the bedroom or in life.
     
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  17. kingpietro

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    I am not a mgtow definitely not. I've had girfriends, and dates.

    With the sentence "need to prove herself" i mean that a lot of guys only look at the woman looks and immediately thinx she is the one way to fast..Maybe you don't have a connection , maybe she is a bitch towards you and don't give you respect. Thats what i mean prove herself you have to look if you 2 are compatible.

    Same goes for woman they shouldn't fall immediately for a man first look if its the right person.
     
  18. The distinction is appreciated. As someone who likes women, I'm wary of what men who don't want women in the life have to offer. It's like people who use 'cunt' as a derogatory term - I LOVE cunts.

    Compatibility would be great, but if I were to wait for women with whom I were compatible with, I'd have an even poorer success rate with women than I do at present. You'd think that with time and experience this crap would become easier, but no. I expect women I interact with to not respect me and be bitchy to me, hence why my invisibility is sometimes a good thing. Think I'm being paranoid? Yeah, 83 rejections and an actual sexual harassment complaint can do that to man.

    Yeah, that's nice, but women hardly ever go for the 'right' person - if anything they want the wrong guy.

    So yeah, confidence is great, if you can get it, but I'm yet to find it.
     

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