NoFap moderator missyaley (from our subreddits) has passed away

Unfortunately, I have confirmed that NoFap moderator missyaley has passed away. missyaley was in charge of NoFap's accountability group for women.

She was loved by many people in her offline life. In her partner's own words, "She was the most beautiful, gentle soul and we're devastated." In her online life, her work impacted thousands of people around the world.

Without people like missyaley, NoFap wouldn't be possible. These dedicated volunteers keep the site running smoothly. They are the ones on the front lines, battling the trolls and people spamming pornography all over the place. Although many community members may have no idea how much moderation goes on, mods generally take that as a compliment, as that means they're doing a very good job.

I have grown to know missyaley personally through NoFap, and can attest that she was a kind-hearted & beautiful person. She was passionate about helping other people. I wholeheartedly believe in the butterfly effect and the power of empowering individuals to change the world. Her work, lifting up people, helping them through their reboots, and making them feel comfortable changed the world. Her death is a loss for humanity.

That is all I really can say at the moment. We'll circle back and amend this post if necessary, but figured that the community had a right to know.

Please feel free to leave any thoughts here.

 

Update on main page. We launched a fund in her memory.

Cards and letters to her family can be sent here:

NoFap LLC
c/o missyaley
PO Box 81015
Pittsburgh, PA 15217

 

Only 24.

 

I don't know particulars and don't plan on asking her husband or family. They're pretty traumatized right now.