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Nofap saved my life - 9 months journey

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by wcn13, Oct 11, 2020.

  1. wcn13

    wcn13 New Fapstronaut

    Hi! I'm 24 years old and I want to share my very personal experience on nofap.

    On 1st January this year I was maybe not depressed, but I had very serious mental problems, particulary with my private life. It's strange, because I have good job, well grades on my studies and have not any financial troubles. It's just about bad motivation and loneliness when it comes to love life. Many people say that a man like me should have no problems with women attraction - I think, as my friends, that i am not ugly. Moreover, I am well-kept, tall, well-build, with healthy skin, body, regular trainings, etc. For me it was paradox that boys, my peers, without any special feautures can be with incredibly beautiful girls while I had problems with the simplests behaviors like normal talking during events or chating on FB.

    On this day (the beginning of new year) I accidentally discovered phrase "nofap". I am not sure, but I think it was on scrolling some FB group. I started reading and listening about it and after week I made a decision to try challenge. First 2-3 weeks were terrible, any sexual content on TV or social media distracted me much more than before. But the longer I endured, the more resistant I got. I started to see many changes in my mind - I stopped sexualize every women and continually thinking about PMO. After 3 months, in march, we got lockdown and any social life became limited. It was perfect moment to intensify my trainings. I bought more accessories and made some "home gym". I was training 4-5 hours a day from march to second half of april and as the result my condition now is even better. To be clear - still any porn since beginning of year.

    From may to september I still was not watching any porn and everyday I felt some "good energy" in my mentality. Social skills increased, anxiety was definitely overcomed. What's better, I also had some new body changes. In sequence - healthier and brightened skin on face; strong muscles as the result of trainings; thicker, fuller and harder beard; hair on my head became better and maybe even it stopped going bald in some areas... and may others positive results.

    About one week ago I had meeting with my new friends on studies. About 15 people - 11 girls and 4 boys, including me. I came into room in the club, sat down and said hello to each of them. And after happened some unheard in my life. About 10 minutes later every girls started to sit next to me at the same time. It was even funny view - me at the centre on some chair and 11 girls around me carefully listening everything i was talking about; looking at me eyes; playing with their hairs; saying compliments to me (oh, you are so interesting, so smart, etc). At that moment I was feeling like a hero, very famous person who now meets with his fans, even though I did not know any of them. What's incredibly fun, other boys (3) sat in the end of room and without any women attention scrolling their phones, while girls were interested only in me. Clear contrast - me as the "alpha male" and other boys as the "beta males". Now I do not have a problem with future dating - now I have a problem, which girl I should choose :D I remember their eyesight, their body langauge, gestures and I am sure that it was not random accident - this women attraction was 100% real and during this evening I still was feeling some fire in my blood. I think girls sensed it subconciously. I do not know, how does it works, but... it works. Just like that.

    Thanks for reading and, seriously, try this. Porn is shit, virtual sex is shit, masturbation is shit, being beta male is shit. I got out of it and - I hope - fixed my life. I made my choice. What is yours?
    Last edited: Oct 11, 2020
  2. PeterGrip

    PeterGrip Fapstronaut

    Thank you for your story. Exactly what I want to hear right now. Your situation sounds like mine, except I'm only 3 days in and struggling HARD with women.
    Oh and I'm happy for you. Congratulations on feeling better :)
  3. Ainz

    Ainz Fapstronaut

    Do you have problem of wet dreams? If so, then how often??
    adilx750 likes this.
  4. wcn13

    wcn13 New Fapstronaut

  5. wcn13

    wcn13 New Fapstronaut

    Do you think about pollution? No, I did not notice.
    Ainz likes this.
  6. Osl0

    Osl0 Fapstronaut

    Thanks for sharing. Did you experience Flat Line?
    I haven't had flat line and I don't know if it will come.
    quit@porn likes this.
  7. MrBlue201

    MrBlue201 Fapstronaut
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    Good dude! Congrats. I guess girls can tell if a guy is a wanker or not lol.
    quit@porn and Cmv120 like this.
  8. Belching_Booch

    Belching_Booch Fapstronaut

    Bro this inspired the shit outta me! Thank you.
    adilx750 likes this.
  9. Muntasir04

    Muntasir04 Fapstronaut

    Did you have insomnia/anxiety or anykinds of problem in your nofap??
  10. Tom1492

    Tom1492 Fapstronaut

  11. Tom1492

    Tom1492 Fapstronaut

    This inspired me so much bro, I am going to be starting a workout regime again next week to be strong physically, mentally, and after the transformation be an Alpha Male.
  12. Nice story man, I am also doing NoFap since 6 days. I am 15 years old. :)
    Warrior1995 likes this.
  13. Muntasir04

    Muntasir04 Fapstronaut

    How long you are doing PMO??
    Muhammad Husayn likes this.
  14. Since 7 Days i am doing no pmo. ;) Feeling calm, happy, no tension but also feeling some urges.
    Muntasir04 likes this.
  15. PeterBE

    PeterBE Fapstronaut

    Try crossfit, itll make you stronger, faster and bigger aswell as mentally tough. (Imagine 3 hours of crossfit and you'll be sweating tons and tons.)
    A good way to start with it is with the book 8 weeks to sealfit by mark divine. You can do everything in a regular gym except for 1 thing so that's a benefit and it works well since I'm doing it for a year and a half now and still love it.

    To @wcn13 keep it up
  16. HardWorkOnly

    HardWorkOnly Fapstronaut

    Thank you very much for sharing your story thats amazing,can you share with us what else you have done during the lockdown so you didnt relapsed?
    Oliver Gunter likes this.
  17. collegegoober

    collegegoober Fapstronaut

    Hello, I am inspired by your story. How long were you an abuser though? One thing I fear is that I have used for so long my brain is beyond repair
  18. There's never a wrong time to start :) Go for it dude!
    collegegoober likes this.
  19. Congrates first and continue, remember that as long as we are alive, our primitive brain remains vulnerable to high level of natural rewards that got all of us into the shit. take care...
  20. Thanks for sharing your journey, man. It seems like 30 days has already made crazy changes to your life, I'm excited to see the improvements you face after longer milestones, as well as hopefully feel them for myself later on in my streak! I'm sure you've inspired numerous others as well B)

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