NoFap's Official "Jerkless January 2017"! Continue or start your PMO-free commitment here!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Alexander, Dec 28, 2016.

  1. blazor28

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    count me in too , i don't know but somehow i feel that 2017 is going to be a change .I am feeling a lot of positive vibes which i have never felt before i hope i leave porn.As i am going to become a doctor so i have to be a clean person from inside as well.So i am gearing up for the battle ,let it begin.....................................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
     
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  2. Commit999

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    I'm totally in! What a great way to start off the new year.

    My previous record was 14 days, and I feel like I can achieve 30days now. Here we go! Good luck to all!!

    I'm commiting to abstain from porn and PMO during this month-long time frame. The only O I will allow myself is with my wife. I can't wait to see the positive outcomes.

    I'm thinking an accountability partner will be helpful. Please message me if anyone is interested. (41 year old Married father of 2. I don't need porn in my life!)


    Good luck to all!!

     
  3. Commit999

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    Positive vibes sent your way! You can do this!!!
     
  4. Commit999

    Commit999 Fapstronaut

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    Great point about having more free time to be more productive. Porn is the ultimate productivity nemesis for me. Good luck sir!!!
     
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  5. Commit999

    Commit999 Fapstronaut

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    Good luck...This is a great decision on your part! I just "sampeled" what life was like without porn for 2 weeks in November. It was amazing!! I slipped a few times since then, but now I'm in 100% for 30 days! Stay strong and enjoy the journey!
     
  6. nathanielhusker

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    I'm still doing it, still going strong. I mean, it's only two days so far....but yea. I'm doing it!
     
  7. Green_Tea

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    Im in!

    Starting January 2017 I'm going to do a 3 month streak of no-PMO!
     
  8. changinginside

    changinginside Fapstronaut

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    I'm in. I'll do all my best to spend January doing constructive and beatiful things!!!
     
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  9. MasterPablo

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    Count me in no -PMO january :)
     
  10. Magicwhip

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    Count me in, hard mode
     
  11. BecomingAlpha

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    I'm in! day1 for me now. Serious about making real lasting changes in 2017 not just talking them up.
     
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  12. iwmsgan

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    Would you like to participate? If so, please reply to this thread with the following information.
    • Are you not going to allow yourself to masturbate? View porn? Orgasm whatsoever? Not allowing any outlet for sexual release is called "hard mode".
      • I'm in for PM-Mode. Have to keep the wife happy
    • How long do you want this challenge to last? By default it is one month, but 90 days is recommended for rebooting.
      • 90 total, I'm currently on day 20
    • What are your goals?
      • Make it to day 90
    • Why are you doing this?
      • Kick the porn habit forever. Interested in the benefits of a reset.
     
  13. jahebes

    jahebes Fapstronaut

    I'm in. Hard Mode. 90 days sounds like an eternity, and honestly so does 31, but I need this and I'm optimistic. Boo yeah
     
  14. conqueror to this

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    Day 1: very successful..no urge...
    JAN NO JERK CHALLENGE
     
  15. shutdown66

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    COUNT ME IN.... i've had a bad December, binging like a freak.... time to put that behind me and get a good NOFAP run on, reset my counter just now... here is the OFFICIAL BEGINNING for me
     
  16. Mister_Chamomile

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    • Are you not going to allow yourself to masturbate? View porn? Orgasm whatsoever? Not allowing any outlet for sexual release is called "hard mode".

      I'm going to allow MO because I feel I need to ween out of PMO. I've done hard mode a few times and it had good results, but I also keep seeing myself relapse over and over after great streaks of 3 months, 1 months, 2 weeks, and I am not getting the results I want in the long term.

    • How long do you want this challenge to last? By default it is one month, but 90 days is recommended for rebooting.

      Starting with 30 days and will check in. I also am going to have on a diary card I use for various problem behaviors, tracking food and emotions and other stuff, a section of NF journaling. I'm going to try to journal at least 3 times a week. usually when I'm journaling I'm doing better. After 30 days if I'm feeling good I'll keep going.

    • What are your goals?

      To reduce my shame and guilt. My main long term goal has been to try to get porn out of my head because of the impacts I think it has on how I view women. I can't tell if I'm a really horny, objectifying person, if society made me that way, or if porn made me that way, and which combinations of things made me that way. If it's my nature, fine. If it's society, that's pretty hard to change. If it's porn, that's something I can cut out or at least reduce. I think MO with porn fantasy is counterintuitive but at present I still think I need to ween. I've been binging really, really hardcore the last few months without even a week of sobriety. I always feel terrible about myself, try to pursue relationships less as a result, become more isolated, and my health usually deteriorates around the same time because of how much I start to say fuck it to everything around self care.

    • Why are you doing this?

      I want to be able to enter a real relationship again and feel less ashamed about my sexuality, sexual desires, to see a woman in a loving, accepting way without having a constant message chirping in my head, subtly or not, that her body is unattractive, that I'm better than her, and other shitty, misogynistic things that dehumanize her. And maybe I'm taking that too far, and it's not what's happening. But I do suspect that it is pretty strongly, and think with less porn use, I'll be more likely to really humanize and love and care for a woman and visa versa, and maybe a long term relationship will actually happen for me again, minus any addicts, borderlines, alcoholics etc.
     
  17. Sleeping_Beauty

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    I'm joining in. So far I've had a PMO-free December and I fully intend on making it through January too.
     
  18. ifthisislove

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    I'm in. Wanna beat my record of 69 (haha) days.
     
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  19. Amit shah

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    Already completed 29 days PMO free...now my new goal to be PMO free for the whole month...count me in
     
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  20. Yarramalli

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    count me in for january
     
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