Nice post, and that's a really great quote in your sig. That really resonates with me, both your post and sig! I'm signing up for a month, no intentional arousal or fantasy. Some call it hardmode, some call it NoA, the No Arousal Method, but I simply view it as being pure in mind and body. Personally I don't feel a need for any fancy jargon or labels. But then I have been focused on making things beautifully simple as of late. I'm becoming minimalist so to speak, check out www.becomingminimalist.com if you're at all curious what on earth it is I am rambling about.