NoFap's Official No Masturbation May 2014 Signups

I am Up for May !

 

Gonna try and keep it for at least 3 weeks, hard mode if i can!

 

Hard mode for sure. I'm hoping that by participating in this this month I will be able to continue with and stay PMO free forever! I'm doing this because I need to. I've missed out on so much the last eight years of my life and I just want my life back.

 

Im in for May & hopefully beyond. Here are my answers to the questions:

How long do you want this challenge to last?

Im currently on Day 7 and its been really tough so far. I want to get to 30 days as my first goal but it will be like 40 days if I get through May. Eventually I want to get to 60 then 90. If I make it that far I believe I will never Fap again, particularly to porn.


What are your goals?

I want to reset my brain so that I can have normal relationships. I think that is going to be a long time and I'm ok with that. I want to get back to being the person I was 3 years ago before I got into this downward spiral. To do this I have to go Hard Mode. I want to retrain my brain to not think of women as something that exist just to cum in. Along the way I want to gain discipline over my thoughts and my actions.

Ive made a a sacred commitment to myself to do this. I lurked here and failed now that I have joined this forum I have committed, truly committed.

At the risk of sounding a little crazy which I might be from all the urges I've been fighting, I actually shaved my head and the rest of my body over the weekend as a physical reminder to myself of what I have to battle. As it grows back I will grow as a person and I swear if I Fap to porn again I will shave it all off again as a reminder of my failures. I know this sounds extreme maybe even like a call for help. Maybe it is but extreme situations require extreme measures. Im either all in or I'm not. If I'm not all in then whats the point of being here?


Why are you doing this?

I have admitted to myself that at age 19 I am both a porn Addict and a Sex Addict. The two are interconnected. I realize this now. For me at this point there is no such thing as either healthy MO or even an Orgasm from normal sex. Until I reset my brain 90 days from now, 180 maybe a year I dunno. Dosnt mater Ive had enough sex in the last 3 years and ultimately my habit got me into a really bad scene a couple months ago. Since then I have not Hooked up so that record is longer than my PMO one which is now on Day 7.

I would be lying if I said I was not screaming inside.

 

Hard Moding.
Going to go for may and then hopefully that'll be the worst of it and i can never fap again.
Challenge myself

 

No arousal method (NoA) for the month of May for me, going to be quite a challenge and will require daily meditation and self-awareness. Daily journaling should help catch the thoughts and fantasies before they lead to drooling over every beautiful woman I encounter in public.

 

I will not allow myself to masturbate, viiew porn or orgasm, so hardmode,
I want this challenge to last until about july and just continue on from there
goals are less social anxienty, more social interaction, beat depression.
Why am i doing this?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FaqxAEx46Zk

 

I'm in. I'm on day 19 of my very first attempt and I want some motivation to make it through may.

It will be hard mode for me, no PMO and no sexual activities at all to recover myself from the damage porn has done to me.

See you when you get there!

 

I am in!

-I will pursue my actual challenge and not PMO for the month of May.
-Also I added a new banner specially for this challenge. In fact, not being able to wake up on time is my second biggest disappointment in my life. If I don't get up and start snoozing my depressing self crushes me in bed until the last minute and I hate myself for being late the whole day after... I am starting this new challenge for the occasion and take a step forward for my self esteem and and well being.

Cheers everyone!

 

New World here I come!
*Hell No. "Go HardMode or Go Home", I'm about to take one long vacation over here.
*The Whole Month
*One step at a time. 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months. And then till the end of time baby
*It has been a long time and a road block in my life. Something I need to get over and ignite the fire in my belly again.

 

Yeah count me in. .. relapsing has gotten bad and I just wanna quit cold turkey! !

 

No masturbation & no porn for 100 days. I want my life back...

 

Please count me in. I want to be PMO free for 30 days. So Month of May is very important for my recovery.

 

Hard mode, most definitely. I'm wanting this to be a one time quit. I don't want this crap hovering over me anymore. My goal is to be mentally purified of all this, and for this to enable me to be the (coming up soon) husband I need to be, and ultimately the MAN I wanna be instead of what "society" thinks I should be.

Thanks for the support and encouragement, you guys!

 

Hard mode
90 days
I want to rewire my brains and want to stop PM
Improve the quality of my life

 

mostly a 100 day aim .. which wud be the first step to being forever free..!!

 

Thanks. Count me in two. Have completed first week of 100 day goal (no PMO) but it's getting tough now. Getting that tingling feeling in my system. This challenge has come at a good time.

 

I'm all in on this too.

- No PMO at all.
- Go through the entire month, but keeping it up to beyond. Have already been abstaining for about a month now!
- I want to be rebooted to how life is supposed to be lived and not be controlled by PMO or my desires anymore

Stay strong everyone!

 

I will participate this month, I will not allow myself to PMO, I am doing this to beat social anxiety and gain confidence. But I also want to be more productive too and have a more active lifestyle. My ultimate goal is to last 90 days or more.

 

I'm new here but I feel like I'm making a lot of a progress since I discovered this site which is about a month ago! I'm currently on day 4 (almost, just some hours to go). My best goal was 10 days and I feel it's time for a real challenge.

-Hard mode since i'm not in any type of relationship...yet.
-At least the whole May.
-My goal is to minimize and get rid of PMO in near future.
-I want a more healthy life for me.