NoFap's Official Orgasmless October 2014 Signups

brah keep going it will be an excellent fresh new year just like me 4th jan 2015 will be 90 day streak, best of luck mattie

 

14 days down!

 

Day 15 - about 1/2 way there, people!

 

I am signing up for the 90 day hardmode challenge without any PMO. Getting married in three months and would like to be free from porn forever and have amazing sex with my future wife!

 

Just found this site and joined up today. It is exactly halfway through October so I thought I'd start myself on a 15/16 day PMO through Halloween. Would love to hear any and all advice. Peace. I am 47 going on 48.

 

Halfway through. Well done everyone who's signed up and got this far, we're all in this together

 

16 Days! Let's keep this going!

 

Made it through 2nd day of 16 until Halloween. That would be my longest PMO abstinence in years. I hope everyone has a success tomorrow!

 

17 Days! Urges came on very strong, yesterday. I almost went to a strip club, too! Gotta stay strong.

 

Another couple days. Hope everyone is successful. The "NoFap" icon cracks me up every time I log on.

Hoping to get to Halloween and take it from there with a longer more personal post.

 

Just started today. I am doing this for my wife of 2yrs and for my career in addictions counselling. I Was porn free for 4yrs and fap free for 2. But life stress caused me to be weak. Going on hard mode.

 

Ok folks, we are in the home stretch! Today I'm home alone. The weather is terrible so I'll be inside. Easily a day where in the past I'd just give in. By the grace of God and not making any dumb decisions today won't be that day.

 

So, what is your strategy to cope with being home alone, when you have such a golden opportunity? I recommend you have a specific plan and countermeasures at the ready.

 

Whelp, it's still only about 4:30pm. I slept in a bit, went out for breakfast to get out of the house. Ran an errand. Hung out on a sports message board. Walked the dog. Hodgepodge of things but nothing exciting. Stayed busy enough.

 

30 days hard mode beginning yesterday! Then O's only with a partner... My goal is to get proper erections back and I'm doing it to feel comfortable sexually

 

I just noticed the questions at the beginning of this thread.
FYI I am just about to turn 48. Married. Addict of varying degrees for 30 years.

Are you not going to allow yourself to masturbate? View porn? Orgasm whatsoever? Not allowing any outlet for sexual release is called "hard mode".

No M. No porn


How long do you want this challenge to last?

Until Halloween. 16 days

What are your goals?

To not look at porn or anything approaching it.

Why are you doing this?

Because I hate myself for being a slave to it and my wife deserves better.

 

Damnit! I was doing so well and now I caved. It wasn't a small crack either, I did it like 4 times today, wtf? I didn't even feel like doing it and yet I did it anyway. Even the slightest trigger, (it was absolutely tiny) and yet I hopped back into my room, closed the door and just did it. I'm feeling numb after every time I do it. I need to try harder, I don't want to go on like this, no more, I'm already depressed as hell, my desire to live is hanging by a thread, I feel dead already.
I seriously want to 'reset' everything about me, start from scratch, I have that chance, I moved to another country, nobody knows me. I can start anew. I just don't now where to begin, but all I know is, I want to stop this stupid habit. No more P,M or O until I'm married to someone.

 

No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
~Corinthians 10:13
That passage keeps me going. Only 2 days free, but I'm not giving up. Lets do this brother!

 

Hang in there Karma, you aren't alone. People have screwed up many things terribly and came back stronger.