Non-orgasmic masturbation and sexual transmutation

[Chaste guy]

To each their own - I am doing it to prolong sexual activity with my partner without feeling drained afterwards.

To each their own, I agree.

yeah, nofap doesn't mean becoming a monk though... I hope I will be touching my dick until I'm 99, it's just touching it when it's unnecessary or the downsides are more than the upsides that it becomes a problem.

but as I said above, I get what you mean and I agree that it can lead to that. it can be a way to trick your brain - I've fallen into the pit many times too. still, I remain convinced that there is a way to be in touch with your sex energy without repressing it and without falling into mindless, life-damaging lust.

I don't intend to become monk; but I do try to not masturbate anymore ever again. When I have a girlfriend situation changes, I have to take an account of her and what she wants. In theory I believe it would be best to have sex only to have babies, but... If she wants it, well... I'm willing to make that sacrifice. For the sake of love, I'm willing But I'm still going to tell her that what we do is stupid and not optimal

 

[Orgone5]

Well, thanks for your thoughtful reply. I'll leave you with this definition to think over:

Masturbation: from the Latin words manstuprare; from manus "hand" as in manual + stuprare "defile" (oneself), from stuprum "defilement, dishhonor," related to stupere "to be stunned, stupefied" (as in stupid).

lol. ok, well, not really sure I agree with the Latins here hehe.

 

[Icewarrior]

To each their own, I agree.

I don't intend to become monk; but I do try to not masturbate anymore ever again. When I have a girlfriend situation changes, I have to take an account of her and what she wants. In theory I believe it would be best to have sex only to have babies, but... If she wants it, well... I'm willing to make that sacrifice. For the sake of love, I'm willing But I'm still going to tell her that what we do is stupid and not optimal

What if making love (not lust) with your beloved, without orgasm, is a method of transmuting sexual energy?

 

[Chaste guy]

What if making love (not lust) with your beloved, without orgasm, is a method of transmuting sexual energy?

It does put a smile on your face when girl kisses you. She can also be of great help when you need advice. So no, I don't believe you need woman to "transform" your energy, I believe that energy comes every day and you yourself use it, by doing the hard work.

 

[Icewarrior]

It does put a smile on your face when girl kisses you. She can also be of great help when you need advice. So no, I don't believe you need woman to "transform" your energy, I believe that energy comes every day and you yourself use it, by doing the hard work.

Well, there are transmutation practices for singles and for those in a relationship.
I don’t know if you are in a relationship or not. I can tell you that being in a relationship doesn’t mean you don’t have to work. Hard. To try and not give in to the temptation of lust during love making is a serious challenge.