Non Porn Induced Fetish

As a 19 year old who is also a virgin, I also have a fetish that I hate having, If I am being honest, I am unsure if I can help you because because I like vanilla sex and can get aroused by it, so I could probably not relate to your struggle. I can relate to you liking girls and women however I've been attracted to the opposite sex since middle school. However unlike you I always get aroused by vaginas for some reason and I'm a huge boob guy too! Never could be motivated to like osiol though. Even women's osiol. Osiol in general is a turn off for me.

 

Same as me, never liked regular sex, having fetish from early childhood even before even knowing what is porn, that's rough i know. I will tell you my story.

I was doing nofap hardmode for 2+ years and my best streak was 269 days no PMO and i had few more streaks around a month, my fetish was weaker, i could control it, i could say no, but there was a visible problem. I still wasn't able to be aroused to vanilla! So i figured out avoiding PMO can't make me liking regular sex.
But can we change this? I think we can, brain is flexible muscle and is able to learn new things, i don't think we can undone or forgot fetish(because it's from our childhood may be because of trauma, or unstable family, or some incident bla bla...) but we sure can be aroused with vanilla.

Most of you will not agree with me here but it is what it is, start to watch vanilla porn. It maybe will not be pleasurable like fetish stuffs but do it instead of fetish things and go do fantasies about vanilla with some girl you know in real life. Never think or do fantasies of your fetish, forget about fetish, shake hands about that and cut fetish forever. If you want to PMO then PMO to vanilla. That's what i do now. Does it work? I could say so.
First if you still do PMO you can do at least minimum 30 days of nofap hardmode just to wash away that trash from mind and then start with vanilla.
You can also write some affirmations on paper and read them for several times for 21 days or longer.
Good luck mate. this one will be tough.

 

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