Oh I definitely agree with you on the porn part; however, I believe we have different viewpoints on sex and sexual fantasies. For me, I want to save sex for marriage as I believe God has made sex to be. And for sexual fantasies, I believe they are natural, but not normal. And I guess it would be cool for me to have them with my definite future wife, but right now, I'm just doing my best to avoid them. skaterdrew, this isn't anything against you at all, we just happen to have different viewpoints and goals.