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Not being horny around attractive person? Is this normal? Help.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by cpot33, Apr 2, 2021.

  1. cpot33

    cpot33 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm on day 24 of my hard-mode reboot. I have (and think have always had) trouble being horny when I'm simply around someone that I find attractive. I'll get hard if we start kissing or something, but if we're just hanging out, I almost never get an erection naturally. And these are people I want to have sex with, and even fantasize about when I am horny, but by myself. But when we're actually hanging out, I feel as horny as just hanging out with any other normal friend (which is to say, not horny at all.)

    Is this normal? Is there something wrong with my hormones?
     
  2. looks to me that ur mind and neural pathways are fucked up by pmo. just abstain and u will see that ur libo will return
     
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  3. ItsJustLark

    ItsJustLark Fapstronaut

    It's normal to not be horny around real-life people shortly after giving up pornography. I remember that before I quit, I almost exclusively looked at pornography art of people who aren't real. When I stopped, I had no interest in people in the real world around me. Now I've been sober for around a year, and there's a real-life guy I like and sometimes I even fantasize about us dating and being together. So give yourself some time to dry out, and slowly but surely you'll get back to normal :)
     
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