Recently when I have been making out with my partner, I realised I wasnt really enjoying making out with her even though i find her very attractive. Make out is supposed to be enjoyable and intimate. Btw i have been trying to reboot since end of jan 2016 relapsed couple of time and also had sex on avg once a week.
If memory of what I've read serves correctly, this may be a side effect of flatlining (which, although unpleasant, is actually indicative of a good thing). When was the last time your little buddy down there fired the cannon?
Perhaps you need to go hard mode for a while longer, like every 20 days instead of once per week as you mentioned. In addition, perhaps stress or sleep problems or something else is causing the lack of enjoyment.
