Not having sexual fantasies or reducing them is possible

8 clean days! I feel more energetic, more confident, and I feel like the brain fog is diminishing day by day. These benefits make me continue on this path with more force, although I know that I should not trust myself excessively since this path is not gained from a knock-out but with wisdom.

It is true that my feelings still feel asleep, like when your leg falls asleep and you have to wake it up it hurts a little, I feel like that.

I'd like to share with you something Soaring Eagle posted. This brother who has successfully traveled this recovery path helping many siblings, in many of his publications he talks about sexual fantasies. He has a formula so that you don't have or your sexual fantasies are reduced; I was very skeptical of his formula, but it is also true that I do not know my brain in depth and when I gave Soaring Eagle a vote of confidence I was very surprised. He writes about sexual fantasies:

“In reality, success is very difficult to achieve by relying only on willpower. Instead, you should start by purifying the heart / mind, this will help address the root of the problem because the mind controls the hands, as well as the action to masturbation. If there are a lot of dirty thoughts floating around in your subconscious mind, you will naturally gravitate towards masturbation. Therefore, we must work on the purification of our thoughts, through the repeated study of the rebooting material, this repeated study will strengthen our virtue and in time the habit of masturbation will cease to exist. "

“The first step to stop masturbation is: change your thoughts. This is like giving up a drug addiction. When entering a drug rehabilitation center, the first step is to teach the patient all the correct knowledge so that he understands the harmful effect of drugs, and can clear his mind of all wrong beliefs and thoughts. Many siblings have repeatedly failed to stay clean due to lack of reconditioning of their minds, relying solely on willpower to keep clean will only work in the short term, which will come often and quickly after this is relapse. Therefore, we must always be vigilant in studying the reboot material. "

“Today, I have managed to change my thoughts, I no longer harbor a dirty thought throughout the day, without those dirty thoughts there can be no masturbation. Therefore, I wish to point out this path for everyone so that they can minimize the number of detours and relapses. I have studied many successful siblings, without the exception that all of them were experts in clearing their thoughts. When you talk to any of these people, you will feel that they have a lot of knowledge to share with you; As they share this knowledge with you, they simultaneously reinforce their own understanding, which also helps them stay clean. Final word: to be successful in quitting masturbation, you must rewire your thoughts, otherwise failure is guaranteed.”

"Increase the effort in the cultivation of the heart and mind, only through reboot studies to be able to increase the level of determination, with determination we will naturally fantasize less and even not be able to fantasize."

“To be successful, you must study the knowledge of the reboot, read articles about the reboot to increase our awareness and our level of determination. With determination we can overcome the temptations of our mind, without it we will lack the necessary resistance and we will surrender to it. Rebooting and failing for many years is like going to school without studying, you will stay in first grade forever. But if you study consistently, you can progress to middle school, high school, and college. The reboot works the same way, it must be studied constantly to raise our resolve, when our determination is like a small tree, strong winds can knock it down. But when your determination is strong as a mountain, not even typhoons or hurricanes can change you, not even a nuclear explosion can move you. Let us not, therefore, blame external circumstances when we interrupt our restart, although it is true that the temptation of this society is based on a very great indulgence. However, if your determination is strong enough, no temptation can sway you; you will see what you could not see before, thoughts of indulgence will not be able to enter our intention. To raise the level of determination we must study vast amounts of articles and reset knowledge, the more we read and study, the more we will understand. These studies are the kind that we must carry out every day, and they are not one of those articles on the harmfulness of masturbation where you read once and then stop studying. Reboot articles should be studied every day "

“I've come to a full understanding, once you're there, you can eliminate PMO forever. At my current stage, I have no more sexual fantasies, because fantasizing is an invisible way of wasting kidney qi. When you have understood this from studying, I think many brothers will fantasize as little as possible. Through continuous studies and accumulation of knowledge, the reboot will become more professional and more far-reaching, we will no longer stay at the brute force and / or blind reboot level. "

In these 8 days, which are the most difficult for me, I have not had any sexual fantasy. It is true that I have only just started this journey, but adopting a role of responsibility rather than a victim role is much more hopeful for my recovery.
It is also true that I continue to deal with my emotions and that I have not yet entered the flatline and I do not know how I will respond to those situations, but from moment day by day!

Let's go for 9 clean days!