not really porn but haircut fetish??

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Wotatuhhhh

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hey there guys, first of all I'd just like to just say that I am just 16 so yeah, i figured that you guys may help me with wht ever is with me and do prepare to read quite a bit, coz to tell it right, I gotta go way back.

so a couple of things you guys should know, I am a male and again as previously said, I am only 16, so do understand like how probably difficult my situation is really cuz it really is haha. another thing is that, I actually am not into porn?? yeah I actually have sorta never watched porn before?? I mean porn never really seemed to interest me or anything. i kinda grew up in an asian family where I was taught previously that porn was wrong and all but, in today's society, I'm guessing I'm the weird one aren't I, never having watched porn before. heck even I think my brother watches it but not me.

but anyways, here comes the weird part. I have a haircut fetish. so basically I get turned on by the sight of girls having their long hair cut off. Yeah I know it's weird to most of you guys out there but, my fellow fetishists, you get my point right??. so anyways, in detail I would get aroused when a pretty girl gets a short short haircut. It would get even more intense to me when a girl would get her head shaved bald by electrical clippers. Ironically, I still think, generally girls with long lusicous hair are more attractive.

so i would often fantasize in my head many different scenarios of an attractive woman (sometimes being someone I know) receiving an forced haircut or headshave by someone or by me. thoughts like that just really would excite me to the point that yes the sticky white substance would go out of my D.

I have experienced this fetish ever since I was a young boy, except of course, I hadnt ejaculated yet. I guess it started when I was 6 years old. around that whole year, i can remember having had a really short haircut. I guess it would be called a buzzcut now. for that year, every 2 weeks my dad would call the barber to come to my house and buzz my brother and my head to less than a centimeter of hair around our heads. My parents weren't particulary strict or anything, they just thought it was normal. Point was, I hated it. I hated the fact that I had really short hair, while my friends in school could have more length and overall better styles. Heck, i remembered promising to myself back then that when i grew up I'd have like a pretty long hairstyle which I thought would be cool and all. I wanted to have hair which would be blown by the wind and move you know haha. Ok so young me was pretty cringe.

so after that year we finally had more length on our hair. but the thing was, ever since that day, I had always been "uncomfortable" with getting a haircut in a barbershop?? Up until today, I have never been comfortable in a salon. The idea of the barber messing up or intentionally cutting my hair shorter just bugs me out every time i enter the salon. so i guess that could be one factor that drove my fetish.

so ever since that year, i realised that I kinda wanted to cut a girl's hair?? I cant remember how it starts specifically but, I guess it just happened. I would sometimes walk past salons or barbershops and check to see if some one is getting a drastic haircut or sth. so this continued for years and years and I never told anyone. the time came when I was 10 and I received my first "smartphone". It was a blackberry phone, the one with the keypad. But I was so happy about it, because of one small thing. It had the internet.

at that time, I was studying abroad. so i stayed in a hostel with other students and my roomates were this one gay dude and my brother. so the internet noob me started browsing about videos of girls getting haircut. and for a moment, i found pleasure. every night i would type out "forced haircut" or "girl punishment headshave" and watch it all through my tiny screen. (sorry once again to non-fetishists, i know how weird its gotten now but yeah sorry :3)

after a coupla years of the same routine of watching girls having their heads shaved online and all, i realised that i was never satisfied enough. like 90% of videos of haircuts online, i think ive watched, and i cant seem to find more content. I just feel like this part of me is so weird. and i cant tell anyone without risking myself being looked like a freak. Hell, every night I sleep thinking, i'd kill to tell just anyone about this thing. so thats when i figured about NoFap. i hope that sharing my experience in nofap would ultimately help me out in life. so really Ive got a question for you guys.

this fetish, is it wrong and I shouldnt pursue it, or instead should I embrace it?

pls feel free to voice out your opinions, but i really think that your opinions can help me out. Once more, I guess I am just a very confused 16 year old boy really haha

and if you are a fellow hair fetishist pls do chat with me, as Ive said, im just dying to chat with a fellow person who understands :)
 
I had a bunch of festishes before I started on NoFap, a few months ago. Now looking back, I realise that they were just highs that my brain seeked cause regular stuff wasn't cutting it anymore. You could put the most beautiful girl in front of me and I wouldn't be turned on. I'd need her to adhere to a fetish to get even remotely turned on.

Fetishes don't make sense IRL. Find a partner first, then see if you guys AS A COUPLE have any fetishes.
 
Roady said:
Hi @Wotatuhhhh

Welcome here buddy.
Glad you are here.

I know how weird fetishes can be. I ve struggled with a crossdress fetish in my life + some other.
I know every fetish has a sort of function.
For example: my urge to use women stuff has the function of giving me (the idea of) safety in my life because that I 've missed in my earlier years.
I have faced and processed the underlying issues (fear, wounds, low self esteem) and now I don't need my fetish any more.

You need this fantasy of cutting of girls hair because it has some function for you.
It's of course linked to that bad experiences when you was forced you have your hair cut. But it's also linked to your mother.
Wasn't your mother never take up for you?
Is there some hatred to your mom?
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nah i never hated my mom bro. and to be fair i was never forced, as i have said, they just thought it was fine u know, us kids having buzzcuts.
 
Wotatuhhhh said:
hey there guys, first of all I'd just like to just say that I am just 16 so yeah, i figured that you guys may help me with wht ever is with me and do prepare to read quite a bit, coz to tell it right, I gotta go way back.

so a couple of things you guys should know, I am a male and again as previously said, I am only 16, so do understand like how probably difficult my situation is really cuz it really is haha. another thing is that, I actually am not into porn?? yeah I actually have sorta never watched porn before?? I mean porn never really seemed to interest me or anything. i kinda grew up in an asian family where I was taught previously that porn was wrong and all but, in today's society, I'm guessing I'm the weird one aren't I, never having watched porn before. heck even I think my brother watches it but not me.

but anyways, here comes the weird part. I have a haircut fetish. so basically I get turned on by the sight of girls having their long hair cut off. Yeah I know it's weird to most of you guys out there but, my fellow fetishists, you get my point right??. so anyways, in detail I would get aroused when a pretty girl gets a short short haircut. It would get even more intense to me when a girl would get her head shaved bald by electrical clippers. Ironically, I still think, generally girls with long lusicous hair are more attractive.

so i would often fantasize in my head many different scenarios of an attractive woman (sometimes being someone I know) receiving an forced haircut or headshave by someone or by me. thoughts like that just really would excite me to the point that yes the sticky white substance would go out of my D.

I have experienced this fetish ever since I was a young boy, except of course, I hadnt ejaculated yet. I guess it started when I was 6 years old. around that whole year, i can remember having had a really short haircut. I guess it would be called a buzzcut now. for that year, every 2 weeks my dad would call the barber to come to my house and buzz my brother and my head to less than a centimeter of hair around our heads. My parents weren't particulary strict or anything, they just thought it was normal. Point was, I hated it. I hated the fact that I had really short hair, while my friends in school could have more length and overall better styles. Heck, i remembered promising to myself back then that when i grew up I'd have like a pretty long hairstyle which I thought would be cool and all. I wanted to have hair which would be blown by the wind and move you know haha. Ok so young me was pretty cringe.

so after that year we finally had more length on our hair. but the thing was, ever since that day, I had always been "uncomfortable" with getting a haircut in a barbershop?? Up until today, I have never been comfortable in a salon. The idea of the barber messing up or intentionally cutting my hair shorter just bugs me out every time i enter the salon. so i guess that could be one factor that drove my fetish.

so ever since that year, i realised that I kinda wanted to cut a girl's hair?? I cant remember how it starts specifically but, I guess it just happened. I would sometimes walk past salons or barbershops and check to see if some one is getting a drastic haircut or sth. so this continued for years and years and I never told anyone. the time came when I was 10 and I received my first "smartphone". It was a blackberry phone, the one with the keypad. But I was so happy about it, because of one small thing. It had the internet.

at that time, I was studying abroad. so i stayed in a hostel with other students and my roomates were this one gay dude and my brother. so the internet noob me started browsing about videos of girls getting haircut. and for a moment, i found pleasure. every night i would type out "forced haircut" or "girl punishment headshave" and watch it all through my tiny screen. (sorry once again to non-fetishists, i know how weird its gotten now but yeah sorry :3)

after a coupla years of the same routine of watching girls having their heads shaved online and all, i realised that i was never satisfied enough. like 90% of videos of haircuts online, i think ive watched, and i cant seem to find more content. I just feel like this part of me is so weird. and i cant tell anyone without risking myself being looked like a freak. Hell, every night I sleep thinking, i'd kill to tell just anyone about this thing. so thats when i figured about NoFap. i hope that sharing my experience in nofap would ultimately help me out in life. so really Ive got a question for you guys.

this fetish, is it wrong and I shouldnt pursue it, or instead should I embrace it?

pls feel free to voice out your opinions, but i really think that your opinions can help me out. Once more, I guess I am just a very confused 16 year old boy really haha

and if you are a fellow hair fetishist pls do chat with me, as Ive said, im just dying to chat with a fellow person who understands :)
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I am also a fellow haircut/hair fetishist, and I am struggling with it too. I did a period of not masturbating for around 2-3 months and I did see that the fetish was going away from the haircut side and more to the regular hair fetish, so I think it’s possible to get rid of it.

As for how I got my fetish I have no clue, I never had a traumatizing experience I can remember that would cause it, I’ve had it for as long as I can remember. I’m especially scared now because my Girlfriend has amazing long blonde hair and sometimes my mind will just wander on its own and start fantasizing over her and her hair, and it honestly scares me.

My advice to you would be to just not masturbate at all and your fetish will eventually die out I think, if you feel and urge or start thinking of haircuts, just start doing something else and forget it exists. If that’s a bit extreme then just try not to fap for like 2-3 months and when you do it again do it to regular porn and not hair related. Hope this helps, and just know you aren’t the only one who struggles with this.
 
Wotatuhhhh said:
hey there guys, first of all I'd just like to just say that I am just 16 so yeah, i figured that you guys may help me with wht ever is with me and do prepare to read quite a bit, coz to tell it right, I gotta go way back.

so a couple of things you guys should know, I am a male and again as previously said, I am only 16, so do understand like how probably difficult my situation is really cuz it really is haha. another thing is that, I actually am not into porn?? yeah I actually have sorta never watched porn before?? I mean porn never really seemed to interest me or anything. i kinda grew up in an asian family where I was taught previously that porn was wrong and all but, in today's society, I'm guessing I'm the weird one aren't I, never having watched porn before. heck even I think my brother watches it but not me.

but anyways, here comes the weird part. I have a haircut fetish. so basically I get turned on by the sight of girls having their long hair cut off. Yeah I know it's weird to most of you guys out there but, my fellow fetishists, you get my point right??. so anyways, in detail I would get aroused when a pretty girl gets a short short haircut. It would get even more intense to me when a girl would get her head shaved bald by electrical clippers. Ironically, I still think, generally girls with long lusicous hair are more attractive.

so i would often fantasize in my head many different scenarios of an attractive woman (sometimes being someone I know) receiving an forced haircut or headshave by someone or by me. thoughts like that just really would excite me to the point that yes the sticky white substance would go out of my D.

I have experienced this fetish ever since I was a young boy, except of course, I hadnt ejaculated yet. I guess it started when I was 6 years old. around that whole year, i can remember having had a really short haircut. I guess it would be called a buzzcut now. for that year, every 2 weeks my dad would call the barber to come to my house and buzz my brother and my head to less than a centimeter of hair around our heads. My parents weren't particulary strict or anything, they just thought it was normal. Point was, I hated it. I hated the fact that I had really short hair, while my friends in school could have more length and overall better styles. Heck, i remembered promising to myself back then that when i grew up I'd have like a pretty long hairstyle which I thought would be cool and all. I wanted to have hair which would be blown by the wind and move you know haha. Ok so young me was pretty cringe.

so after that year we finally had more length on our hair. but the thing was, ever since that day, I had always been "uncomfortable" with getting a haircut in a barbershop?? Up until today, I have never been comfortable in a salon. The idea of the barber messing up or intentionally cutting my hair shorter just bugs me out every time i enter the salon. so i guess that could be one factor that drove my fetish.

so ever since that year, i realised that I kinda wanted to cut a girl's hair?? I cant remember how it starts specifically but, I guess it just happened. I would sometimes walk past salons or barbershops and check to see if some one is getting a drastic haircut or sth. so this continued for years and years and I never told anyone. the time came when I was 10 and I received my first "smartphone". It was a blackberry phone, the one with the keypad. But I was so happy about it, because of one small thing. It had the internet.

at that time, I was studying abroad. so i stayed in a hostel with other students and my roomates were this one gay dude and my brother. so the internet noob me started browsing about videos of girls getting haircut. and for a moment, i found pleasure. every night i would type out "forced haircut" or "girl punishment headshave" and watch it all through my tiny screen. (sorry once again to non-fetishists, i know how weird its gotten now but yeah sorry :3)

after a coupla years of the same routine of watching girls having their heads shaved online and all, i realised that i was never satisfied enough. like 90% of videos of haircuts online, i think ive watched, and i cant seem to find more content. I just feel like this part of me is so weird. and i cant tell anyone without risking myself being looked like a freak. Hell, every night I sleep thinking, i'd kill to tell just anyone about this thing. so thats when i figured about NoFap. i hope that sharing my experience in nofap would ultimately help me out in life. so really Ive got a question for you guys.

this fetish, is it wrong and I shouldnt pursue it, or instead should I embrace it?

pls feel free to voice out your opinions, but i really think that your opinions can help me out. Once more, I guess I am just a very confused 16 year old boy really haha

and if you are a fellow hair fetishist pls do chat with me, as Ive said, im just dying to chat with a fellow person who understands :)
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hey man i got the exact same fetish as you, i can completely understand why you are confused, i felt the same way, honestly i agree, its really hard to stay content. hmu if you wanna talk more
 
Hey there, I’m new to this site and your story was interesting to read. Was just wondering weather you had long hair now and whether your subconscious mind actually wants you to get a extreme haircut again from perhaps your childhood and that’s why your fetish is still around. I do have to admit my story is very similar to yours which I think may have resulted in me having the fetish too, although it’s over just normal day to day haircuts instead of extreme buzz cut etc.
 
Wotatuhhhh said:
hey there guys, first of all I'd just like to just say that I am just 16 so yeah, i figured that you guys may help me with wht ever is with me and do prepare to read quite a bit, coz to tell it right, I gotta go way back.

so a couple of things you guys should know, I am a male and again as previously said, I am only 16, so do understand like how probably difficult my situation is really cuz it really is haha. another thing is that, I actually am not into porn?? yeah I actually have sorta never watched porn before?? I mean porn never really seemed to interest me or anything. i kinda grew up in an asian family where I was taught previously that porn was wrong and all but, in today's society, I'm guessing I'm the weird one aren't I, never having watched porn before. heck even I think my brother watches it but not me.

but anyways, here comes the weird part. I have a haircut fetish. so basically I get turned on by the sight of girls having their long hair cut off. Yeah I know it's weird to most of you guys out there but, my fellow fetishists, you get my point right??. so anyways, in detail I would get aroused when a pretty girl gets a short short haircut. It would get even more intense to me when a girl would get her head shaved bald by electrical clippers. Ironically, I still think, generally girls with long lusicous hair are more attractive.

so i would often fantasize in my head many different scenarios of an attractive woman (sometimes being someone I know) receiving an forced haircut or headshave by someone or by me. thoughts like that just really would excite me to the point that yes the sticky white substance would go out of my D.

I have experienced this fetish ever since I was a young boy, except of course, I hadnt ejaculated yet. I guess it started when I was 6 years old. around that whole year, i can remember having had a really short haircut. I guess it would be called a buzzcut now. for that year, every 2 weeks my dad would call the barber to come to my house and buzz my brother and my head to less than a centimeter of hair around our heads. My parents weren't particulary strict or anything, they just thought it was normal. Point was, I hated it. I hated the fact that I had really short hair, while my friends in school could have more length and overall better styles. Heck, i remembered promising to myself back then that when i grew up I'd have like a pretty long hairstyle which I thought would be cool and all. I wanted to have hair which would be blown by the wind and move you know haha. Ok so young me was pretty cringe.

so after that year we finally had more length on our hair. but the thing was, ever since that day, I had always been "uncomfortable" with getting a haircut in a barbershop?? Up until today, I have never been comfortable in a salon. The idea of the barber messing up or intentionally cutting my hair shorter just bugs me out every time i enter the salon. so i guess that could be one factor that drove my fetish.

so ever since that year, i realised that I kinda wanted to cut a girl's hair?? I cant remember how it starts specifically but, I guess it just happened. I would sometimes walk past salons or barbershops and check to see if some one is getting a drastic haircut or sth. so this continued for years and years and I never told anyone. the time came when I was 10 and I received my first "smartphone". It was a blackberry phone, the one with the keypad. But I was so happy about it, because of one small thing. It had the internet.

at that time, I was studying abroad. so i stayed in a hostel with other students and my roomates were this one gay dude and my brother. so the internet noob me started browsing about videos of girls getting haircut. and for a moment, i found pleasure. every night i would type out "forced haircut" or "girl punishment headshave" and watch it all through my tiny screen. (sorry once again to non-fetishists, i know how weird its gotten now but yeah sorry :3)

after a coupla years of the same routine of watching girls having their heads shaved online and all, i realised that i was never satisfied enough. like 90% of videos of haircuts online, i think ive watched, and i cant seem to find more content. I just feel like this part of me is so weird. and i cant tell anyone without risking myself being looked like a freak. Hell, every night I sleep thinking, i'd kill to tell just anyone about this thing. so thats when i figured about NoFap. i hope that sharing my experience in nofap would ultimately help me out in life. so really Ive got a question for you guys.

this fetish, is it wrong and I shouldnt pursue it, or instead should I embrace it?

pls feel free to voice out your opinions, but i really think that your opinions can help me out. Once more, I guess I am just a very confused 16 year old boy really haha

and if you are a fellow hair fetishist pls do chat with me, as Ive said, im just dying to chat with a fellow person who understands :)
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Really want to call you and speak about this
 
Blake_Boi said:
I am also a fellow haircut/hair fetishist, and I am struggling with it too. I did a period of not masturbating for around 2-3 months and I did see that the fetish was going away from the haircut side and more to the regular hair fetish, so I think it’s possible to get rid of it.

As for how I got my fetish I have no clue, I never had a traumatizing experience I can remember that would cause it, I’ve had it for as long as I can remember. I’m especially scared now because my Girlfriend has amazing long blonde hair and sometimes my mind will just wander on its own and start fantasizing over her and her hair, and it honestly scares me.

My advice to you would be to just not masturbate at all and your fetish will eventually die out I think, if you feel and urge or start thinking of haircuts, just start doing something else and forget it exists. If that’s a bit extreme then just try not to fap for like 2-3 months and when you do it again do it to regular porn and not hair related. Hope this helps, and just know you aren’t the only one who struggles with this.
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I too have the same issue and I think when I try and keep myself busy throughout the day this fetish totally vanishes. It only returns when my mind is free to wander(waking up in the morning or going to bed at night) and automatically puts me in the spot to go and watch videos. The videos of women getting a haircut toatlly to turn me on. I have been in a relationship for 8 years of the long 13 years since I have this paraphilia. I have never able to come to terms and tell my girl about it. The risk and fear of loss is way too high.

I think what works the best is to develop some sort of productive hobby OR work on a weakness that you always wanted to overcome OR develop a new skill; which should be fluidic enough to get adopted especially when one starts getting these thoughts. I have been working on this idea for some time now. I don't resist masturbating all together because I know if I do so, this fetish will come back even stronger. I wish to take it slowly and gradually bring it to zero in the next 3 months.
 
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