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Noticed this while using

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by zombieslayer, Sep 15, 2021.

  1. zombieslayer

    zombieslayer Fapstronaut

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    I noticed that on tiktok,

    this girl commented “wow 250k views for showing my ass” on one of her posts

    and it hit me how many girls on tiktok have thousands of guys just looking up videos of their ass, and gawking

    drooling…

    Like, is this what we’ve come to?

    Is this men? A bunch of pathetic soft wastes of space who sit there waiting for a girl with an ass to post something showing her ass??…..

    How might said guy come off in person?

    Maybe a little bit needy? Just maybe.

    And perhaps a bit socially inept?

    Because he doesn’t know how to talk to the girl who’s ass gives him pleasure…..

    This is just sad where we’re at.

    I could cry

    I could scream

    I could throw a fit

    But I think I’ll just rise and do my best every day to live a life that doesn’t require mindless stimulation from some girl’s ass

    -zs
     
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  2. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut


    There's a few things you could do.

    1. Ignore this crap while doing your reboot. You have your own problems you need to deal with, so deal with them. Don't worry about the rest of the world until you can stand on your own two feet
    2. Try to help other people out. The guys who do things like that are fledgling porn addicts. There are also full blown porn addicts who do way worse stuff. Share what you know. Learn more. Talk to others. Do what you can to help. It's your way of paying forward the help and research done for your recovery.
    3. Capitalize. There's an epidemic of guys who distract themselves by simping for women online AND women who need more and more attention to feel secure. Learn what strategies work and how to play the game, and you'll be surrounded by women who are highly interested in you. You should never take advantage of anyone or do things to hurt people for your benefit, but you can only help people so much. Every now and then you gotta stop to smell the roses, and that could be giving tons fo attention and compassion to a lady whose insecurities are increasing like all women nowadays.
     
  3. That's right, avoiding tiktok, helping others to do the same and doing the right thing (nofap) will only make you a better person. Like the author said, the feeling men lately give to society is "is this men?".

    I believe we (men) can do much better than what most of us actually do.
     
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