I understand! Do they just not remember because they are so messed up or do they actively hide it? When my husband first disclosed it was " four hours a week no favourite websites with no fluctuation in the amount over the years", to "almost every day and 2 favourite sites" to "once every two days for 30 minutes" to "5 hours a week when out of town, none at home" to "2 times a week at home" it is just all over the place. Granted he has had several weird work schedules but still. I want concrete info.