Now do you understand how it feels? (spouse of a PA)

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by BetterThanYourHand, Feb 26, 2018.

  1. Recovering PA

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    I have just finished reading a marvellous book recommended to me on this site that I am of the opinion we addicts need to read. It's called "the man of her dreams/ the woman of his". Its on Amazon and I am considering buying a paper copy after downloading and reading it. Anyone who has had addiction or misguidance in their relationship including adultery needs to read. I can't believe how much it has helped me. Thanks to @GhostWriter you were sent from heaven to help me and my SO.
     
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  2. Recovering PA

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    Definitely let me check our diary and I will message back x
     
  3. Lol! Did you realise you just sent Ghostie a kiss ? You're head must be somewhere else X :D:D:oops::oops:
     
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  4. GeeWhizz

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    What’s wrong with kissing Ghostie ?
     
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  5. Recovering PA

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    Yes I did, i have love for how he has helped me.
     
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  6. This is legitimately terrifying, I don't even have a spouse & now I feel like I have to apologize . Thanks for the heart scare. I AM COMMITTED TO MAKING THIS REBOOT WORK!
     
  7. Torn

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    @BetrayedMermaid
     
  8. There's no such thing as a woman of your dreams and anyone who thinks there's such a thing is deluded!
     
  9. Recovering PA

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    soul mate? the person you feel most at ease with or close to on another level. these people exist.
     
  10. No such thing as a soul mate either - there are many potential partners but there isn't just this one person. With a soul mate ideology, you have the domino effect. It's a mistake to think there's a perfect looking woman, with a perfect personality and character out there for you. Everyone has their imperfections.
     
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  12. Numb

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    This is your opinion. While I don't really believe there is a 'perfect man/woman' that doesn't mean that others are wrong in thinking that or finding the person they find to be perfect, flaws and all. Same on soul mates, not something I really believe in, but I will not say others are wrong for believing so. Everyone has their own opinions of what is perfect, or the person of their dreams.
     
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  13. Xander74

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    Thanks for your constructive input. Keep it coming.
     
  14. Steveju

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    You are totally right. Many of us feel like fools for being exactly like that. It’s why we are here. I hope we all continue to strive to make ourselves and others around us better and more respectful.
     
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