I have just finished reading a marvellous book recommended to me on this site that I am of the opinion we addicts need to read. It's called "the man of her dreams/ the woman of his". Its on Amazon and I am considering buying a paper copy after downloading and reading it. Anyone who has had addiction or misguidance in their relationship including adultery needs to read. I can't believe how much it has helped me. Thanks to @GhostWriter you were sent from heaven to help me and my SO.