Numb genitals - very depressed

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Frenchboy76, Jun 17, 2018.

  1. Frenchboy76

    Frenchboy76 Fapstronaut

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    I don't know...
    But when i see in forums the number of people having the same kind of issues (hard flaccid, numb penis, cpps, etc...) without any solution from their doc, i think they have deficiencies to understand and solve these problems.
     
  2. werwo

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    Hello, my situation y very similar than you. One day i get up with a numb sensation in mi penis and since that i have the next problems:
    - Difficult Obtain and mantenaint erecition (only erections if im on the bed)
    - Low libido
    - No morning wood
    - Turtling penis
    - Very poor sensitivity (penis)
    - Not orgasm

    All of these started one day that i drunk lot of beers. Im adicted to drink beers all days. Is similar than you?

    NOTE:
    I think that since I was 13 I have never been able to watch more than 3 days without masturbating, BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN A PORN CONSUMER.
     
  3. Frenchboy76

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    Hello Werwo.

    I was student when my problem began. I was drinking lot of beers indeed but i really don't think it was the cause of the problem.

    1. Because i have this since 18 years now, and i drink very few alcohol since many years, without amelioration

    2. Because my issue began just after 2 rough masturbations.

    - When did your symptoms appear ?
    - did you masturbate frequently when it happened ?
    - please describe your symptoms more precisely
    - do you have othe symptoms than penis symptoms ? (Testicles position and hanging, numbness, or pelvic floor muscles tension and tightness, etc....). Are you an anxious/depressed person ?

    Thx for your answers
     
  4. ItsInTheBag

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    Did you, by any chance, use prone masturbation?

    If so many tests failed to reveal a cause - could it be it's really something psychological, disguised as something else? Maybe just a weirdish, long flatline?
     
  5. werwo

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    Ok, my symptoms appears in a time when im with cronic constipation, anxiety and overweight. Today, 15 month later, i loss 12 kg and the constipation has been reduced.
    Any times i feel penile and testicles shrinkage, but in the case of testicles it is when i need to go to the toilet. In the case of the penis, the shrinkage or turtling is very usual.
    I never can't to stop masturbating in my life for a long time. When my problems starts, my masturbate habits was normal: 1 time x day.
    In case of pelvic floor, i feel pain frecuently but not always. The pain is only when im full erected in dorsal part of the penis and perineum.
    Some times, i feel a sensation of fliud or spasm in penis that i think it has something to do with perineum. And the penis is permanetly with a hot sensation, not cold.

    A question: Can you tell me what is your record of abstinence of masturbate? In my case: only 3 days.

    important: I HAVE NEVER BEEN AN ADICTED TO WATCH PORN (I use imagination)
    PD: Sorry for my english, it isn't very good.
     
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  6. ItsInTheBag

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    I wish I could offer you more advice. FWIW, my record should be...of a few years. I've lost count a few times. 3 ore more years.

    I cannot link, but if you google "prone masturbation" you should find out what I was asking about specifically.
     
  7. Frenchboy76

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    No prone masturbation for me...

    The longest i didn't masturbate was near 10 months. Without any result on my issue.

    Do you have numb penis/testicles too ? Tight scrotum ? The feeling that penis is "disconnected" from the rest of the body ?
    When i finish to pee or defecate, the pelvic floor is very tight, penis very retracted and testicles up with very tight scrotum. And just after peeing, i feel like if some urine is stucked, and then i have often spasms of pf muscles (kegel muscles) with urine dribbling.... I have sometimes pecum leaks too, with spasms of pf.

    This situtation turns me crazy and even provoke panic attacks, depression feeling, etc...

    I really don't understand what's wrong with me.

    The most probable cause for me would be very high and chronic tension in pf, which reduce blood flow in penis and genital region.

    And i don't what to do to try to reduce this tension. Nothing worked.

    I have hardflaccid penis too....
     
  8. ItsInTheBag

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    I don't experience anything of the sort. The worst thing I had was ED, but it went away with time.

    If the veins were OK'd, I guess your prostate was checked, too. It's very odd. Are you sure you're not having problems assimilating magnesium (reason for muscle spasms, even cramps), calcium, zinc etc.? These are not measured during the standard bloodwork. Do you have any other kind of manifestations - non-sexual?

    Were you ever bitten by a tick? Lyme disease can manifest in many-many weird ways.

    Wish I could be of more help, my friend.
     
  9. werwo

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    have you ever done an pelvic MRI? This urinary symtoms can be a bulbar uretral problem. Search in google :Cowper's gland duct cyst in an adult male. Radiological and clinical aspects.
     
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  10. woody.toy269

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    Hi there,

    I can definitely relate: I struggled quite badly with some anxiety in my 1st year of marriage! Together with that, I was watching porn far too regularly for my liking. I struggled to get an erection. It was highly embarrassing, and I hated myself for it.

    I would say that you are doing a great job of staying away from porn and masturbation. I think the anxiety issue can take a while to go away, and you need to be patient about it. Try doing more exercise, meditation, and any fun/relaxing things. Whatever you do, don't relapse and fall into the trap of watching porn again.
     
  11. Frenchboy76

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    I already stopped porn/masturbation during more than 1 year without any results.... Should i stop any sexual activities or porn during 30 fu..ing years or even my entire life ??????

    Nofap didn't work for me, that's the sad truth.

    I think i have either a big chronic pelvic floor muscles issue, or a big chronic anxiety/panic syndrom which induce somatic symptoms in genital area (or maybe both).

    Whatever it is, i have no solution currently, nothing works.
     
  12. ItsInTheBag

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    @werwo had a pretty insightful post. Maybe look into that?

    I can tell you that whenever I used P, on top of what problems I already had...it made it worse. Man, I was such an unpleasant person to be around...always about to be triggered, always about to blow-up...
     
  13. werwo

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    Later, we will send you some links about cases of urethral problems like this. ;)
     
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  14. Bulk-er

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    Hi @Frenchboy76
    Long time reader but I signed up just to write you up.
    As a permise, I do not have any solution, but I ve read from you lots of things similar to my situation, while some others no.
    I just want to suggest another option seeing that your abstinence is not working.
    Have you ever Heard about the saying.... ' use it or lose it'?
    I guess is somehow true, but I m not advicing you to masturbate or to have sex, not at all. I m just saying that in my opinioni your penis needs some blood Flow increase and trusting on your great will power for no masturbation I think that using some cream on your penis would help the tissue to get soften.
    The penis will get stimulated and some blood will Flow to the penis vein. Do no get scared of having an erection, just do not masturbate, nor in a soft way neighter in death grip way (of corse). Just let the penis get filled with fresh blood and moisture ur penis with cream, leave the cream work, put some bendage on it and cover it and do your daily stuff.
    I m going to continue in next posts to keep the messages readable
     
  15. ItsInTheBag

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    Interesting take on it, but once your brain is proper you should get several long-lasting erections during every night...
     
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  16. Mao Zedong

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    have you ever visited a psychologist? He could help if it's something with your psyche.

    Your Problem is very relatable to me, chronic deseases are incredibly hard to cure.
     
  17. Makachulo

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    I have a similar problem, my penis has gone numb for some months now. The whole issue started with frequent urination last year's, I used to maturbate regularly for about 9years, my erection is no longer strong, ejaculation is now painful, penis shrinks badly when not erect. I have gone for so many test and the doctor said It's not an infection, that I should go and take more water. Ever since then I have been struggling with the issue. Now my penis is completely numb and I have serious inflammation in my urethra after urination since one week now. What could be happening to me? Am confused. My feet feel cold and a little dry and painful, I feel a little depressed and tired. Am planning on going to hospital again. Any Idea of what this could be? Thanks.
     
  18. Frenchboy76

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    I'm nearly sure that my problem is not psy.

    I already saw a psy during few weeks, but i knew it was totally out off topic.

    My problem IS physical. I don't know how it happened and why, but it is (i suspect overmasturbation).

    The base of the penis (which is located inside the body) feels very flat and tight. When i kegel, no blood comes as it used to before, when i wanted to have hard erections.

    Somebody knows why testicles and penis would always retract and feel numb (like if i always was in cold water) ?? Could a chronic very tight pelvic floor induce such symptoms ???
     
  19. Bulk-er

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    Have you read my post?
    As u ve seen kegel exercises are not working to gather blood to the base of the penis and all long the penis, cause, ( but I m supposing on my personal experice and from all i ve read) your problem started from over masturbation that brought to exhaustion, death grip that desensitisized the tissue and damaged the little vessels.
    As u stated, u re sure is a Physical issue and I m on the same boat on this, I think is counter productive abstaining from stimulating the penis; i m not saying to fap, but your penis need fresh blood, and you have to pull it there somehow seeing that the problem may be also on your pelvic Floor that should allow blood naturally to the penis.
    A little anecdote: I ve read that in gay world, when a guy want to be feminized by his master, he applies a chastity device on his penis to make it shrink with the time passing, to avoid any Physical stimulation and to avoid erections. Once the slave is trained enough he will stay completely limp, numb penis and shriveled even when very horny.
    All these things and others info have something in common: to impede a natural blood Flow to the penis.
    You will say:' I do not have any cage on my penis and tissue and vessels should have recovered after one year of abstinence from masturbation'.
    The point is in my opinion that since your penis got the problem you should had left the penis to rest and after some time...starting to re educate your penis to gather new blood, and you had to do it manually.
    Leaving the penis so passive for so much time and having a blood Flow issue from the pelvic Floor have trained your penis to stay in a never ending flat line. Your penis stay limp cause is empty of blood and no stimulating the penis at all, do no gather any blood to the penis to start an erections.
    Those yellow and blue pills work to make flow lot of blood to the penis.
    They are not meant to be used just if you have to to have sex and if you feel anxious; they are useful if you have a blood Flow problem that keep ur penis numb and you need to train again your penis to gather and hold new blood to have a prolonged erection.
    I ve read somewhere ( some accademic document) that also the penis ring device would be helpful if used in the proper way and I underline it, if used in the proper way, so google it and read all well.
    I tried it and I m using it. Once I stimulated the penis manually, also pulling blood by the pelvic Floor, pushing on it, I put the ring around the penis and below the testicles for max 20 mins.
    In this way the blood stay there, the cavernous chambers benefit of it, the vessels and the tissue too and the ring impede the blood to Flow away as happen with people with erectyle dysfunction problem.
    Keep the penis lubed, always moistured.
    It increase the sensitivity and the vessels have more space to let the blood Flow.
    If u re abstaining since one year and ur penis is completely numb and you re sure is a Physical problem, well u ve seen by urself that abstaining is not the cure for your problem.
    Start considering a blood Flow problem related to the pelvic Floor, due to over masturbation and now also by ur prolonged abstinence that completely dried and trained ur penis to exists without blood.
     
  20. Bulk-er

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    Maybe you should do again a vascularisation exam but on your pelvic Floor; try to contact a pelvic Floor therapist, they re more inclined to listen to people that think they have a Physical issue. Just be sure to contact a therapist that have some experience with men, cause pelvic Floor problems are usually addressed to women, but those that had some men patients, they know pelvic Floor problems may lead to erextile dysfunction.
    When I went to an urologist I also had a doppler for vascularisation, but in my case was an injection with prostaglandine. The chambers got filled with blood and I didn t have any Flow back, but the erection was the weird est ever, the glans completely soft, and the shaft completely flat instead of a round and fat penis. The point is that that doppler scan the chambers condition, but I always knew my problem was deeper, is my perineum that is flat, whipe before it was always round, full, it was like i was sittint on a tennis ball. As soon as i was pushing my perineum, all my penis was stimulated and got moves.
    Once the perineum is flat, and i mean the penis portino inside the body, you can r expect a normal outside portion. You can Force an erection with extra stimulation, death grip and so on, but it will be a weak erection that l'asta very little if u stop masturbation and holding it tight. The blood will Flow away from chambers.
    Is the inside portion that have to be strong and full, like a root that substain the penis
     

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