Numb genitals - very depressed

I just made this account to write you this:

I haven't read the whole thread but every symptom you have mentioned just screams "Hard Flaccid".

It's a condition where basically your pelvic floor is being too tight/weak so the blood can't flow into your penis correctly anymore. Sadly, pelvic floor conditions (in males) aren't well known by common doctors. Especially not at the time when you got these symptoms. Hard Flaccid is fixable though and there will be no permanent damage.

A weak/tight pelvic floor is caused by weak/tight muscles around it(glutes, abs, hamstrings). Your muscles in these areas were tight/weak before and due to your excessive masturbation habits you triggered your pelvic floor to be trapped in its tight state(Other triggers can be a uti or prostate infection) You know, when you orgasm how your muscles are tightening and relaxing on and off? That's your pelvic floor. You can probably imagine now how demanding masturbation and sex is for your pelvic floor. You might also have problems with peeing and shitting because it's the same muscles that need to relax/tighten there. Since the real cause for a tight/weak pelvic floor is due to the weak muscles around it relaxing and breathing exercises will only help temporary at best. To really get rid of it you will need month of exercises.

I myself have these symptoms aswell but only for 4 month now. I just recently found out about hard flaccid due to a subreddit and it really gave me hope. You might wanna go on there too. I started exercising a weak ago and man, it's so hard but I'm sure I will get better some day. I can't imagine how horrible it must be living with this condition for YEARS. I only have it for a few month and it made me so depressed.

I'm new here so I can't post links or anything that looks like an URL but I think you should read these. Just change the , to an .

reddit,com/r/Hard_Flaccid/comments/j860ab/how_hard_flaccid_works_explaining_your_symptoms/
reddit,com/r/Hard_Flaccid/comments/jb4ihr/why_your_hard_flaccid_isnt_nerve_damage_and/
reddit,com/r/Hard_Flaccid/comments/jcmt2x/how_to_understand_and_fix_your_cpps_and_hard/
reddit,com/r/Hard_Flaccid/comments/jkf37l/why_proper_exercise_helps_hfcpps_and_why_other/
reddit,com/r/Hard_Flaccid_Syndrome/comments/ki0qod/an_intense_routine_for_hfcpps_suffers_not_for_the/


I hope you and everyone else with the same symptoms can eventually get rid of it!

 

I have strange problem. For me keggels works opposite they should. When I contract keggel muscle I have orgasm much quicker. Somebody has simillar problem?
Should I do opposite keggels exercise?

 

old post but how the hell did you manage to go 7 months hard mode, is that even possible. Normally i would say you probably develop a routine of failure, it happens when you simply start to obsess with failing and it happens, it becomes sort of like your false prophesy. Start to think you have no problem, and even when it happens think like you have no problem, your sensation may come back, but also if you feel depressed that is your problem, nofap will help but i would imagine 7 months is already critical if that didn't fix it. Why do i have a feeling that you edged in that time, i seriously don't believe anybody that tells me they went 7 months of NoFap

 

Hi there!
I dont know if you are still here.
I have the same problem.
I used to have a very firm and heavy penis and big big low balls. Many compliments about my balls size and how my penis usd to look while soft.
As for erecet my penis was thick enough, very vainy and i had really good erections.
At about 34 ( I am now 39 years old) I noticed some change on my penis and balls. Especially on flacid state it became very small, almost like a child and felt disconected from my body as you said.
I can have erections BUT.... dude its like half in size and girth. It is so strange!!! I can be hard but my penis it's so thin while hard like it is not competely filled with blood but still hard.
I feel I also have lost elastisity down there.
My balls also up to my body most of the times like I am always on cold or on afraid situation.
All this years until now I have been to several doctors.. Did all the exams and they cannot find any reason for this. They tell me that there is nothing wrong with me. But i showed some pictures of my penis before the problem and agreed that it is dieferent.
I recently discovered noFap (HUGE masturbator here!!!) (i jerk off since iwa about 10 years old until now - even when i am in relatinship - and many times per day)
I just finished a 33 days streak pmo (something i couldnt even imagine trying!!!) at the beggning i saw some resaults on my flacd penis and balls but then i got to a flatline and also suffered from insomina so my penis got shrniked again and once again i couldnt feel it much down there.

If you are still here tell me your knews. Let me know if you found any reason for this happened to you.

Looking forward hearing from you and wishing you all the best mate!

 

Free 23, I'm having the same problem for almost 2 years now. I think don't need to Explain It.
Let us know If you found any Improvement.