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Numb penis, I need your help!

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by flatley77, Dec 11, 2018.

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  1. flatley77

    flatley77 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone!

    I'm having a serious issue for about 3,5 years at this point, I'm constantly depressed and pretty desperate at this point. First of all, please excuse for my English, I'll try my best but I'm from Hungary, thus the grammar won't be perfect.

    About 3,5 years ago I was at a party, it was probably around 3 am, I was really drunk and everyone went to sleep at this point (the party was held at one of my friend's house). I was about to go home, I went dowsnstairs and there were a couple of the girl's boots. Now while being sober I wouldn' have done this, but I was pretty hammered and I really liked female feet and shoes, so I kinda used one of the girl's boots to masturbate, I put my penis inside it and pretty much f*cked the inside of it. When I was done I went home and slept. The next day my the head of my penis was all red, I couldn't get an erection for a couple of days, I started to panic and went to a urology. I was ashamed of what happened so I didn't really tell the doctor what happened, I just said that my penis hurts for some reason and sometimes it hurts when I pee, he gave me some antibiotics but they didn't help at all. After this incident a couldn't really feel my penis, in the beginning I'd say that the sensitivity of my penis was like 50% compared to what it used to be, it got worse overtime, currently I think it's like 5%...

    The next two years I went many times to the urology and also they sent me to neurology, from there they sent me to a clinic where I had an MR, there were no results but I was ashamed of the cause so I never actually told any of the doctors that I knew what caused the problem, I just describet whats wrong now. During this time I tried to masturbate as usual, problably 6-8 times a week, I could ejaculate but the feeling wasn't the same as before.

    The last time I went to see a doctor was 6 months ago, I went to a private andrology, and for the first time I told the whole story, I told what caused the problem. He checked my penis briefly, from the "outside" everything looks normal, and he said that he is not sure anyone could help me in Hungary with this problem because there are no machines in the country that can examine my penis, how much nerve damage is there. He printed out an article about "quantitive somatosensory testing of the penis" and also he mentioned a device called Erec-Fit but he wasn't sure if that could help, and reading it's description I'm not sure either, but it costs 480 pounds, which is a lot of money for me, pretty much I earn that much in a whole month.

    At this point the problem is so bad that I can't even have sex with my girlfriend anymore because I almost don't feel anything, plus I'm also addicted to porn and I can't really stop masturbating, even though it's harder everyday because I feel less and less. Masturbating actually feels better than having sex, probably because the head of my penis is not rubbing to a vagina. During sex after a couple of minutes, because of the direct friction my penis gets kinda exhausted and usually starts to shrink because I can't feel anything.

    Guys, I really need your advice what should I do at this point...recently I've found this Man1 Oil, but there are lots of frightening reviews on amazon, so I'm really not sure. I'd greatly appreciate any tips!

    Thanks!
    flatley
     
  2. You should see results if you stop masturbating, not even a little, stop completely. It has been over used and abused. If you weren't able to do things with your hand I might give different advice.
    After a time of not playing with it anymore your sensitivity should start to return.
     
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  3. Grandpa61

    Grandpa61 Fapstronaut

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    Yes, stop masturbating! Stop watching porn! I get numb dick all the time. I believe it is PIED porn induced erectile dysfunction. Lately I've been taking cold showers and that is helping in many ways. Be strong my friend!
     
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  4. overclocked

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    Weird story. Save up the money until you can afford the procedure. Don't make it worse by watching porn.
    The effects of porn are 100% reversible, the "damage" it causes are only in the brain. But you need to rule that out so that it doesn't ruin the medical diagnosis. Doctors aren't really familiar with porn addiction and its effects, many would reject the entire concept of PIED.
     
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  5. BillTchmer

    BillTchmer Fapstronaut

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    Quitting porn and mastrubation will help us in many ways. Plus if we can add exercise to our life that will be a big plus.
     
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  6. BillTchmer

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    one question @Grandpa61 . you talked about cold shower, does that mean bathing with cold water in winter? since in summer we all use water of room temperature.
    If you can elobrate this cold shower it will help me any many people like me.
     
  7. Grandpa61

    Grandpa61 Fapstronaut

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    Yes my friend, bathing with Cold water in winter. On YouTube search for cold shower benefits for men.
     
  8. BillTchmer

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    Thanks.
    I took first cold bath this morning after reading your feedback and YouTube videos on cold bath.
    I m feeling good. Will try this for 2 weeks. Let's hope something good comes out.
     
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  9. flatley77

    flatley77 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks everyone for your advice, I tried not watching porn, but I could only last for 2 weeks, this weekend I couldn't help it. I'm not sure yet how am I going to stop watching it completely. I'll try using some sort of lanolin oil, and I also read that certain vitamins might help with skin/nerve regeneration.

    I think if I make through this week without masturbation, I can probably last untill new years at least, I'll probably be busy with family and stuff. I'll post how it went in early january.

    Happy holidays everyone!
     
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